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Old 01-02-2013, 03:23 AM   #1
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I go to a private school and my wonderful and beautiful girlfriend of 2.5 years goes to a public school. Every attempt i make to get my friends to like her fails. They view her as lower class and have a condescending attitude towards her. The girls flat out call her white trash and redneck to her face and behind her back and the guys insist on playing White Trash party by Eminem every time they see us together. I have no intention of leaving her. I just want this to stop. They make fun of me at school as well guys and girls with their white trash and wal mart jokes. On numerous occasions they've made her cry. This is baffling to me as my friends are usually laid back and accepting.
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Old 01-02-2013, 04:16 PM   #2
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that sounds awful, why your friends would act like that puzzles me, surely they should accept that you have chosen to be with this girl as she clearly makes you happy...If I were you I wouldn't hang out with them and her together at the same time especially as they have been so hurtful to make her cry. You have been with her 2.5 years surely they should have accepted her by now. If I were you I would have a look at why you call them friends, maybe it's time to let these people go and you and her go out and meet some new friends together who are accepting of you both as a couple.
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Old 01-04-2013, 12:47 PM   #3
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I think they are jealous of you being with her. They want you to leave her so they could date with her
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Old 01-05-2013, 08:01 PM   #4
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Which ones are more important, your friend or your girlfriend?
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Old 01-30-2013, 02:13 PM   #5
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That's just sad. Have you talked to your friends about this? I think they need to understand that your girlfriend is important to you and they should at least respect you and be civil with your gf. If you have done so and still treat her bad, then you are probably in the wrong set of friends.
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Old 02-15-2013, 06:00 AM   #6
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This is really unfortunate and quite sad to read about. I’m sorry that your friends are complete jerks towards her and to an extent you. You may not want to hear it but it’s probably time you find yourself new friends. I think it’s important you show her how much she means to you by proving that you are willing to support her in any way possible. And it seems like the best possible way in this case is to get rid of your friends. You may still try and salvage your friendships by openly telling them exactly how you feel and what it is that they are doing that is so damaging for you. If they are unwilling to budge on their bullying tactics then let them go. Their immaturity will probably never leave them and you’re going to find that they will probably behave like this for the rest of their lives.
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