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Old 06-25-2010, 04:16 PM   #1
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Question When do you call it bi-curious or bi?

How do I know if I am bi-curious or if i am bi?
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Have you found yourself attracted to other women? Do you think that you may want to be with a woman?

Does your husband know about all this?
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Old 06-26-2010, 07:18 PM   #3
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Have you found yourself attracted to other women? Do you think that you may want to be with a woman?

Does your husband know about all this?
I cuddle my 2 best friends a lot and one friend kisses inside my top which is pleasurable for us, and I tried it on hers at the end of her last visit just before my husband came home and she likes hers kissed too and i think its really unique and nice because its like the 2 softest parts on the body - mouth lips and boobz both making contact. I didn't tell my husband but he has seen girl vs girl porn so he'd be ok with us kissing I think. But I don't wanna tell in case he calls it cheating. Is it cheating or just curious.
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I would say it's cheating, you are letting someone else even if it's the same sex touch you in the intimate ways that is reserved for your husband & your husband alone.

You are doing all these things behind his back. Would you like it if you found out he was doing the cuddling of friends & this intimacy with his friends?

Maybe you & he need to sit down & have a serious talk about what's been going on. Maybe you don't want to be married & that's why you are doing the things you are doing behind his back.
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I would say it's cheating, you are letting someone else even if it's the same sex touch you in the intimate ways that is reserved for your husband & your husband alone.

You are doing all these things behind his back. Would you like it if you found out he was doing the cuddling of friends & this intimacy with his friends?

Maybe you & he need to sit down & have a serious talk about what's been going on. Maybe you don't want to be married & that's why you are doing the things you are doing behind his back.
My friend goes to sex addiction classes and she said I am one and that its not cheating its just a sickness that I need treatment for. She said that was why Im so sad during the day without my husband and why I get so many feelings for my coach and friend. I hope shes right so Im not a cheater. She said I m*sturbate the same number of times as people in her class.
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If you believe you're a sex addict then I suggest you talk to you husband about it & also seek professional help.

You need to start being honest with your husband about all this stuff.
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You need to start being honest with your husband about all this stuff.
Alright i'll try that thanks sapph
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Do you find youself looking at all other women this way or just this woman? Have you ever had sexual fantasies about other women? While you are having sex with your husband do you think of being with a woman? Is this a crush or do you intend to pursue a relationship with this woman? Do you think you could have a relationship with a woman? If this was a man friend you were exploring would you feel the same way?

In my opinion, based on the description you gave, at this time you are bi-curious. You may find this is just a crush or a flirt, and decide not to take this path. It's ok to try to figure this out it can be very overhwelming at first.

As far as cheating on your hubby goes sorry but I have to agree, if he was kissing another woman that way how would you feel?

If you think you may be a sex addict you can get help they have Sex Addicts anonymous. It has really helped a member of my family.

Have you ever thought of therapy? If you are exploring other options, maybe your relationship with hubby needs work. Or a therapist can help talk you through these feelings for another woman. Mine did!

There are websites you can check out online to take sex addicts tests, including sex aholics anonymous. I tried to post url, but not allowed to yet.

Good Luck figuring this out.
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