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Old 12-18-2009, 03:56 AM   #1
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Question College?!! Love?!?!?

So I have just met the love of my life, but unfortunaly im also considering transfering schools. I just got accepted to the Air Force academy, which by the way is miles and miles away from texas, and which is also an ivy league school. It is also a full ride, but also I have a full 4 yr scholarship to the University of Texas. If I choose UT I can be with the guy I love. However if I go to the academy, I will have what I always dreamed of when it comes to a career, however, my dreams of a family will be put on hold. I feel like i am haveing to choose between love and success. What should I do?!?!?!
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Old 12-18-2009, 09:30 AM   #2
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is there really no compromise? talk to him see if he is willing to move with you? i was considering the navy [uk] before i met my soul mate, now i couldnt bare being away from him for weeks maybe month at a time, life is far too short.

you need to consider what is most important to you.
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Welcome to ATLF, glad that you joined us & posted.

I would agree with Princessred, talk to him first if you haven't already. See if he's willing to move or just go the distance with a LDR.
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Old 12-21-2009, 04:48 AM   #4
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I think love is the most important thing although success will be a big thing to lose. If I had to choose, it would be love. I do condone you to try and see if your boyfriend will move with you.
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