Where to Get Help For Your Love Life - Relationship, Dating Forums, Advice on Love

valerievaneesa · 11-20-2012, 01:13 PM

Friends and Family

You should have a support network of friends and family who will give you love advice. These are the people who you can call when you need to vent and who will often freely dispense advice. Remember that they may not always be right or wrong, but they usually have your best interests at heart. Even if they have been divorced 8 times, they may still be able to give you advice on how to save your marriage as it is often easier to see the mistakes others make than to see them in yourself. The negative aspect of this is that they will always be on your side.

Internet Friends

Many people today have internet friends. These are strangers who visit your blogs or go on sites that will give you advice if you ask for it. The best aspect about getting love advice from internet friends is that you can be anonymous and their opinions are objective. As they are strangers, they will not always be on your side and will not sugar coat anything that they have to say. They will also not always tell you what you want to hear, which is good. The negative aspect of this is that you will get 20 different answers to the same question.

Counseling

If you continue to have severe love problems such as a failing marriage or continued trouble in maintaining relationships, you might benefit from counseling. A counselor will be able to help you understand why you continue to have trouble in relationships. Not all love problems are the fault of someone else - in some cases, we habitually seek out the wrong partners. If this is the case with you, you may benefit by getting love advice from an objective counselor who is trained in helping those in your situation.

decemberboysgotitbad · 11-21-2012, 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by valerievaneesa

Friends and Family

You should have a support network of friends and family who will give you love advice. These are the people who you can call when you need to vent and who will often freely dispense advice. Remember that they may not always be right or wrong, but they usually have your best interests at heart. Even if they have been divorced 8 times, they may still be able to give you advice on how to save your marriage as it is often easier to see the mistakes others make than to see them in yourself. The negative aspect of this is that they will always be on your side.

Internet Friends

Many people today have internet friends. These are strangers who visit your blogs or go on sites that will give you advice if you ask for it. The best aspect about getting love advice from internet friends is that you can be anonymous and their opinions are objective. As they are strangers, they will not always be on your side and will not sugar coat anything that they have to say. They will also not always tell you what you want to hear, which is good. The negative aspect of this is that you will get 20 different answers to the same question.

Counseling

If you continue to have severe love problems such as a failing marriage or continued trouble in maintaining relationships, you might benefit from counseling. A counselor will be able to help you understand why you continue to have trouble in relationships. Not all love problems are the fault of someone else - in some cases, we habitually seek out the wrong partners. If this is the case with you, you may benefit by getting love advice from an objective counselor who is trained in helping those in your situation.

Quite random that you post something like this, without it being a response to anything else... maybe you could help me. I tried posting my situation on here about a month ago and NO ONE responded. I tried to post you a link, but if you click my user name, you will find it in my prior posts. Thanks.

ksushil970 · 11-29-2012, 11:47 AM

In your case if you need to get good suggestion or advise,then it will be better for you to take advise from elder one's. They give you better suggestion so it will help you to get good results.

decemberboysgotitbad · 11-29-2012, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by ksushil970

In your case if you need to get good suggestion or advise,then it will be better for you to take advise from elder one's. They give you better suggestion so it will help you to get good results.

Elder ones always say to go out, but they do admit that no one goes out as much anymore. And I do not really feel comfortable going out alone. If I pass someone on the street who is a total stranger and say hello, how far could that really go?

Alston · 12-04-2012, 11:32 AM

Hi Valerievaneesa,
Great post on where to get help for your love life and agree with these tips. Try to share the source also to make your post authentic and valuable.

Katherin · 12-05-2012, 04:24 AM

I would like to say about it which i think about the above topic .I have been single for a while, and I don't like when people keep asking me if I have a boyfriend and I have to give them these updates about your love life every time i see them, especially during the hollidays when people get together.What you think about it share your thinking .

Tammie · 12-06-2012, 12:47 AM

It's better to get some advice to reliable person , the one who knows the situation you are in and the problems you have for such advice..

But there are times also that we have to seek advice from people we don't personally see, friends we met online -- they're sometimes the best adviser if we'll let them know our stories..

BUT REMEMBER: at the end of the day, it's your decision matters. Not the advice you get from friends ...

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Katherin · 12-08-2012, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Katherin

I would like to say about it which i think about the above topic .I have been single for a while, and I don't like when people keep asking me if I have a boyfriend and I have to give them these updates about your love life every time i see them, especially during the hollidays when people get together.What you think about it share your thinking .

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Fern · 08-27-2015, 08:23 AM

After many years and many failed relationships what I finally learned is this... it sounds SUPER cliche' but you HAVE to be happy with yourself first before you can ever even have a chance of being happy with someone else. When you are completely content just being you and if need be, being single forever, you are in a much better position to narrow down the partner you want and stop wasting your time with the losers. If you think about all of your failed relationships in the past... you probably saw a "red flag" or two immediately... like within the first few dates. The needy part of us chooses to ignore those. When you are 100% content alone you listen to all of those red flags and stop wasting your time on jerks. So If you're wondering how to be happy in a relationship, just be happy with yourself first.
Part 2 of this and I'm not sure if this applies to you however some people... especially women... that have had a bad relationship with their father, unconsciously choose men who are exactly like their fathers... distant and uncapable of giving all of their love. These women generally aren't even attracted to "nice" guys because they see them as "boring" when in reality... those kind of men are exactly what they need. I am a TOTAL type A, hyper, outgoing personality. My partner... was raised by his grandparents and acts like he is elderly lol. But we work PERFECTLY because we both need the other's personality to balance each other out. When I get drunk in public and try to dance on a table... he politely reminds me that there is a cop 4 tables down, LOL. Most people intially would consdier him "boring" but I love the fact that he happily lets me have the "spotlight" because he has no interest in it anyways. We have been together 7 years and I am still just as happy as I was in the beginning. When I met him though... I was very happily single and loving it. I didn't want a relationship and was even kind of mean to him. He persisted and I just couldn't tell him no anymore. Now I am so glad that I let him in. If I would have been jumping from one jerk to another like I used to do... he never even would have had the chance.

11-20-2012, 01:13 PM	#1
valerievaneesa I love ? Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Colombo Posts: 17	Where to Get Help For Your Love Life Friends and Family You should have a support network of friends and family who will give you love advice. These are the people who you can call when you need to vent and who will often freely dispense advice. Remember that they may not always be right or wrong, but they usually have your best interests at heart. Even if they have been divorced 8 times, they may still be able to give you advice on how to save your marriage as it is often easier to see the mistakes others make than to see them in yourself. The negative aspect of this is that they will always be on your side. Internet Friends Many people today have internet friends. These are strangers who visit your blogs or go on sites that will give you advice if you ask for it. The best aspect about getting love advice from internet friends is that you can be anonymous and their opinions are objective. As they are strangers, they will not always be on your side and will not sugar coat anything that they have to say. They will also not always tell you what you want to hear, which is good. The negative aspect of this is that you will get 20 different answers to the same question. Counseling If you continue to have severe love problems such as a failing marriage or continued trouble in maintaining relationships, you might benefit from counseling. A counselor will be able to help you understand why you continue to have trouble in relationships. Not all love problems are the fault of someone else - in some cases, we habitually seek out the wrong partners. If this is the case with you, you may benefit by getting love advice from an objective counselor who is trained in helping those in your situation.

12-06-2012, 12:47 AM	#7
Tammie Newbie Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 12	Advice .. Advice It's better to get some advice to reliable person , the one who knows the situation you are in and the problems you have for such advice.. But there are times also that we have to seek advice from people we don't personally see, friends we met online -- they're sometimes the best adviser if we'll let them know our stories.. BUT REMEMBER: at the end of the day, it's your decision matters. Not the advice you get from friends ... Wanna be thrilled??? Wanna be wooed??? Be Excited??? Check and support the NEWEST and the most UNIQUE and EXCEPTIONAL Jewish dating site!!!! It’s more fun fun fun fun!!!!!! It's even more EXCITING, AMAZING, SURPRISING and the CRAZIEST thing ever in the history of online dating!!!! The BEST thing about WOOJOOZ is that you can also CONNECT and MEET NEW FRIENDS!!!! It’s very FANTASTIC and mind-blowing that you will be addicted and suddenly hooked in WOOJOOZ (.com)!!!!! Sign up NOW!!!!!

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11-29-2012, 11:47 AM	#3
ksushil970 Newbie Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 18	In your case if you need to get good suggestion or advise,then it will be better for you to take advise from elder one's. They give you better suggestion so it will help you to get good results.

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Alston Newbie Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 20	Hi Valerievaneesa, Great post on where to get help for your love life and agree with these tips. Try to share the source also to make your post authentic and valuable.

12-05-2012, 04:24 AM	#6
Katherin Newbie Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 26	I would like to say about it which i think about the above topic .I have been single for a while, and I don't like when people keep asking me if I have a boyfriend and I have to give them these updates about your love life every time i see them, especially during the hollidays when people get together.What you think about it share your thinking .

08-27-2015, 08:23 AM	#9
Fern Newbie Join Date: Apr 2015 Posts: 22	After many years and many failed relationships what I finally learned is this... it sounds SUPER cliche' but you HAVE to be happy with yourself first before you can ever even have a chance of being happy with someone else. When you are completely content just being you and if need be, being single forever, you are in a much better position to narrow down the partner you want and stop wasting your time with the losers. If you think about all of your failed relationships in the past... you probably saw a "red flag" or two immediately... like within the first few dates. The needy part of us chooses to ignore those. When you are 100% content alone you listen to all of those red flags and stop wasting your time on jerks. So If you're wondering how to be happy in a relationship, just be happy with yourself first. Part 2 of this and I'm not sure if this applies to you however some people... especially women... that have had a bad relationship with their father, unconsciously choose men who are exactly like their fathers... distant and uncapable of giving all of their love. These women generally aren't even attracted to "nice" guys because they see them as "boring" when in reality... those kind of men are exactly what they need. I am a TOTAL type A, hyper, outgoing personality. My partner... was raised by his grandparents and acts like he is elderly lol. But we work PERFECTLY because we both need the other's personality to balance each other out. When I get drunk in public and try to dance on a table... he politely reminds me that there is a cop 4 tables down, LOL. Most people intially would consdier him "boring" but I love the fact that he happily lets me have the "spotlight" because he has no interest in it anyways. We have been together 7 years and I am still just as happy as I was in the beginning. When I met him though... I was very happily single and loving it. I didn't want a relationship and was even kind of mean to him. He persisted and I just couldn't tell him no anymore. Now I am so glad that I let him in. If I would have been jumping from one jerk to another like I used to do... he never even would have had the chance.