What is her problem?

[Mike L]

Long story short about a few weeks ago this girl i know who I'm friends with sends me this message on facebook that went something like this.. " hey hun how are you doing haven't heard from you in a while.. blah blah"

So I sent her a text message and she never responded back I waited maybe I dunno 3 weeks then I just forgot all about it.. but now that it's vacation time at my job and last year she asked me if I could make her graduation, I asked her via a message on facebook kinda like the way sent went me one you know starting out with hey hun and all that.. i asked her how she was doing and all and when was the date..

anyways the response I got was just straight to the point she said the date and nothing else, no saying I'm doing well or anything like that.. I don't get it because when I totally forget about her she starts sending that hey hun text messages but when I respond it may day hours or days OR I never get a response back..

I don't understand her behavior...


The thing about it she asked me to come to her graduation (325 miles) and she is the one who calls me hun.. just something does the seem right with the whole thing.. If I stop contacting her and forget about her she starts sending me text messages again.

[Mike L]

she has not said anything to me yet but I'm sure the countdown is ticking.. in about 2-3 weeks from now she's going to send me a message.. this time I'm not going to respond back.

[Mike L]

I will just not respond to her messages anymore

[ACH]

Forget her buddy. Sounds like she is playing games or is keeping you around just in case. Been there before and it's best to eliminate all contact. Someone who cares about you or a friend will do you better than that

[cisslybee2012]

Forget her buddy. Sounds like she is playing games or is keeping you around just in case. Been there before and it's best to eliminate all contact. Someone who cares about you or a friend will do you better than that

He said they are friends. So I don't see how she's playing games with him by calling him hun.

What's the big deal?

[cisslybee2012]

I will just not respond to her messages anymore

I don't mean no harm Mike, but I can't see where you have any argument let alone anything to be upset about. :surprised:

Didn't you say that you and she are friends? :surprised:

So if that's the case, then why are you upset over her calling you hun? And what do you expect from her over calling you that? :dontknow:

And now you're going to stop being her friend and ignore her messages for calling you hun?

Hey, if it's like that, then it's for the best. Don't reply to her anymore.

[grahovac]

like somebody said...you shouldn't answer to her messages in the future

[Bentan]

Hi Mike,
I think she has some physiological problem and she want attention only. Do one thing, tell her you are in relation with some other girl and her reaction will tell you what she wants. Trust me things will get easier for you!