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tommy4lyfe
12-30-2011, 12:42 AM
Hello guys. First time poster here. Been reading the forums but I finally decided to post one of my concerns. Hopefully one of you guys can help me figure this out.

Me and this girl has been friends for ages. I have known her since the 11th grade and I am now 25. It is only recently that I have really gotten to know her because she moved into my neighborhood and we go out and hang out. However for the most part that I have known her she has been going out with my friend so I have not tried making moves on her in respect of him. Well she and him have been broken up for almost a year now and I don't think it would be wrong for me to make moves when my friend has already moved on.

Anyways me and this girl have gotten really close over the past couple of months. For now we are strictly just friends but I feel like over the months we have gotten closer. We start to touch each other way more playfully and when we go out we usually are away from all our friends and we talk alone. I guess we are really close but we have never kissed or anything. However there were rumors that she liked someone else and she said she used to but she doesn't want to engage in a relationship right now. She won't talk to me about it she just wants to leave it at that when I asked her for details. She calls and texts me almost every day and I am confused to on what her feelings are with me. What do you guys think?

**Sapphire**
12-30-2011, 11:04 AM
Welcome to ATLF, glad that you joined us here. :welcome2:

Well if she's not serious about a relationship right now, that seems to be a good indicator that she doesn't want to go down that road with anyone.

Maybe she's calling, texting, hanging with you, etc., because she considers you a friend & wants to hang with her friend.

She could even like you a bit, but she since she doesn't want to be in a relationship, she's enjoying being with you with no strings attached.

Either way I think you should wait it out & just be her friend for now. See where things may lead down the road.