Anyone know why do girls do this?

[pika]

Can i just raise a concern to the girls here???

Why do girls just like to hint around guys all the time and not be straight and truthful about something? Is there really so many factors to consider for an action?

[aussiecoffee007]

thats a bit off-topic, but i can try to answer.. not personally but generally. girls are afraid to be honest because we fear rejection more than anything else, practically... we want the guys to make the first move so that we dont feel stupid, because its that whole idea that if a girl sleeps with two guys, she is a slut, but if a guy sleeps with ten he is just an alpha male. we dont want to be set in the wrong life, plus every girl likes to be pursued... if you dont do it, we try to give you hints in case you too are afraid of rejection, but we dont like to make the first move.(again generally speaking). as for the truth part of it? i guess because its always easier to lie than to face the problem head-on.

[pika]

hi aussie,

would girls love to be pursued by many guys even thou she already has the right one in mind? Does most girls love to have a "spare tyres"?
I somehow feel like always being the spare tyres that is stored just in case they might need it...in the past, i dont mind but now i feel i should just find the car that would use me instead of storing me up for emergency.....

[aussiecoffee007]

i think every girl loves the feeling of being purused--what she chooses to do with that person, if they are not the "right person" she has in her mind, is up to her. and that makes the difference between a friend and someone who uses you in case they cant find anyone better... but you deserve someone who wants you because you ARE the car not because they need you in contingency...

[pika]

Thanks aussie....and thats where the part i should judge if i choose to be the CAR or TYRES rite??

Haha...thanks..think i sorted out some of my thoughts for a while.

Thanks admin for shifting this into a new topic.:p

[aussiecoffee007]

exactly, thats the part where you choose whether or not to settle for being someones spare tires or the whole car itself :)

[Penguin_Woman]

Thanks admin for shifting this into a new topic.

Just curious...was this meant as sarcasm or were you serious? Just wondering :)

[pika]

Just curious...was this meant as sarcasm or were you serious? Just wondering :)

hey when did i become so sarcastic....was really saying thanks...because we kept going out of topic

[Penguin_Woman]

Ok, well I was just checking is all. hard to tell on here. :) Carry on

[aussiecoffee007]

thats why i put a ridiculous amounts of smileys and lols and such. its so hard to tell on the internet! *sigh*

[pika]

thats why i put a ridiculous amounts of smileys and lols and such. its so hard to tell on the internet! *sigh*

sorry, i was just to lazy to place in the smileys:) but now i will.....just to minimize confusions:) :p

[Penguin_Woman]

No worries...was just checking is all. :) Do continue with my apologies for interuppting. :)

[aussiecoffee007]

ahha now since i said that everyone is truly going smiley crazy. how wonderful. they are quite fun :)

[anon09011105010]

I think the reason why girls do that is because they want the person to know, but dont want to tell them, its a fliratatious habit, im not sure exactly what it achieves but i can confidently say i myself am sadly an example of that, i suppose its just a thrill:P