Recent breakup

[Veight]

Recently my girlfriend broke up with me. It was obvious it was going to happen. You could easilly see that her feelings had changed. We had only been going out for a month and I fell in love with her in that time. Is it a bad thing that I give it my all when I get into a relationship? I mean, It's good right? To give someone everything you have inside of you. Except it's just like sticking your heart out where someone can step on it. Usually, in short relationships that's bound to happen. I really don't know where I was going with this other than to get some advice on is it a good thing or bad thing to give someone everything in my heart that soon. Thanks for the help.

[**Sapphire**]

Welcome back Veight, we have missed you. :)

From my perspective it's never a wrong thing to go into a relationship with your whole heart, being open, honest, caring etc.. You really shouldn't hold much back when your in a relationship. Sure sometimes it doesn't work, but that doesn't mean you did anything wrong, maybe the person you were with wasn't right for you or knew how to handle you being so open & giving.

I'm sorry to hear of your break-up. :( There is someone out there for you though Veight & she will give her all to you just like you will to her.

[Veight]

Thanks sapphire. I have read your post and I am thinking alot. I think what hurt the most is that I fell in love with her. Probably because between january 9th 2006 and august 28th 2008 I was in a relationship with the woman I had wanted to marry at one point. I wanted to have that someone who would be there to love me. I tried to get that by giving her mine.

[**Sapphire**]

It's a very real possibility Veight that is what you were trying to do. Maybe you "pushed" a little bit more in your latest relationship because you gave your all to your other 1 & also, you may want to be "settled down" & married. You may not realize it, but that could be it.

Maybe the next time you meet someone & start up try to ease into giving her you all, still give it to her, but like in little bits at a time.