Trying to heal a broken heart!!!!

[romantico26]

I was in a relationship for about 5 months...and ive tried to be in contact with my ex but she wont answer the phone...I really love her, Ive been in 3 serious relationships but this one was so diferent, it was so magical and because of that and the feelings that I have for her, I want to make a last try. I am thinking in writing little messages in the trees that are in her way to the university and I was wondering what other people think about my idea...my best friend aproves it...and I am going to do it...but still I cant think in something deep and short that I can write...any suggestions...
Thank you in advance
Vic

[~Teej~]

That is a very sweet idea...if she sees that I think she will like it, and will at least appreciate that you care. :)
Welcome to ATLF

[**Sapphire**]

I agree that does sound like a cute idea.

How about you do little messages like that are on those little candy hearts that are put out during Valentine's Day. You know like those sayings, "be mine, yours forever", etc.?

Welcome to ATLF, glad that you joined us here. :)

[romantico26]

Hey thanx for the support...the thing is I want to write(carve) something trully deep...something that really gets to her...and something that really deserves to be written in a tree for years to come...I hope u guys know what I am trying to do...
Thanx Again
Vic

[Beautiful Mystique]

That sounds really sweet, Romantico and as your nick suggests, you're a romantic.

Not trying to rain on your parade but do keep in mind that she might not want to reconnect the R.

If you don't mind my asking, what was the cause of the break up? Do you think it is fixable?

[romantico26]

Well that is the problem there wasnt a real cause for the break up is just that she is 25 she graduates in december...im 21 i graduate in a couple of years and that was it...there were no fights...but she is a little inmature for her age...why do i say this, because when we broke up we were talking close to her apartment and she started to walk away I follwed her asking for an explanation but she only said: "stop following me, or I will call my mom" eventually she did...her mom didnt like that...but it wasnt my fault and I think her mother is like poisoning her mind to end her studies and forget me...because she calls me restricted in my phone and some of the calls that I made she returned them but when I answered she just hangs up...is like she wants to talk to me but at the same time she cant...I really love her...after we broke up...women started to drop in my life like angels from heaven,and girls that i liked before this relationship, but I cant be with another girl, because i am in love I cant betray my heart and my feelings...not even for a ONS I just cant...

PS: as you can see from my nick I am Latino, and very romantic

[Beautiful Mystique]

Oh. Now her mother is involved. That is not good news, my friend. Never is when parents are involved.

This is tough. If I were you, I'd forget her and move on. I know it's not easy (I'm a hopeless romantic but an idealist too - go figure!) but when something needs to be done, it needs to be done. But on the other hand, she probably wants to be with you but is being poisoned by her mother (who knows for what reason - could be the age thing or others).

Is there any other way for you to talk to her? Maybe in school?

[romantico26]

Well yes but the semester is over and that is why I was thinking in doing the tree thing...I know that when parents are involved is not good news but i also believe in love...as long as their is love anything is posible and I am willing to do anything, I dont wanna lose her...I love her...thats why I need a message that will really get to her...
Thanx
Vic

[Tony]

romantico26
have you thought of a bunch of flowers or a small gift delivered right to her front door with a card ?

that way the flowers will show her that you care and the gift and card can come from your heart.

[romantico26]

Well I already did that...but not in this situation I did it to impress her in a normal day...in other words...I gave her flowers just because it was monday LOL...but thanx anyways...I am very...like determined to do the tree thing but still...im struggling with what I am going to write...
thank you
Vic

[**Sapphire**]

Why not just say, " _____ I love you" in the tree? Short, sweet & to the point & she will know it's a message for her.

[romantico26]

I thought of that...keeping it simple, and I wanted to do it...but then I wanted something more...but now I think I am going to go with your advice...I am going to keep it simple,I think...if something comes to my mind Ill do it in the moment...the thing is I am going to do it today...or tomorrow because is in the am...LOL wich me luck that she doesnt hear me...because here in Puerto Rico we dont have a lot of woodpeckers LOL and I certainly dont look like one...
thank you all
Vic
PS:I will take pictures...and somehow post them...

[**Sapphire**]

Best of luck to you, come on back & let us know how it went.

[romantico26]

hey...I did it...and I have photos...but can somebody tell me how to post them...as you can see I am barely new to this forum...
thanx
Vic

[~Teej~]

Use photobucket to upload them..you will need to set up an account and then it will give you an image code which you can just copy and paste into a post.

www.photobucket.com

:D

[romantico26]

hey...thanx for the info...here are the links for the photos...by the way the university police tried to catch me for doing this...LOL but I dont care they didnt get me...
http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll276/ya_mann14/IMG_0537.jpg
http://i290.photobucket.com/albums/ll276/ya_mann14/IMG_0538.jpg
thanx
vic

[**Sapphire**]

Very nice Vic. Do you know if she has seen the tree yet?

Becareful of those campus police you don't want to get in trouble for doing that.

[~Teej~]

That is really nice...:) she shall love it

[romantico26]

I dont know if she has seen it yet...I made her a letter...I am going to leave the letter today at her apartment with one her housemates and I am going to give her a day or two so she can think and then I am going to call her...
thanx again
vic