In love but mind confused

[brazilian127]

Hi all, I've been hooking up with this girl which i had the biggest crush on for 2 years. She is the first girl i had sex with and she knows that. I really never had a girlfriend and I really want to tell her how I'm feeling about her. She is also one of my best friends. She once told me that she doesn't want to lose me as a friend in my view she is scared to date me because if something goes wrong she will lose one of her best friend and the same way around.

But i want to take this risk and i dont know what to say. I'm in love with her and all i think is about her day in day out.
What could i say to her.
Please Help me

[**Sapphire**]

Welcome to ATLF, glad that you joined us here. :welcome2:

So you & your friend are in a Friends With Benefits situation. Did you 2 talk about it before you both started having sex with each other?

If you already know that she doesn't have those feelings for you & she doesn't want to ruin the friendship you 2 have by dating, then I'm not sure telling her how you fell will be a good idea.

FWB isn't always the best idea because it's pretty much a certainty that 1 or the other person will want more because of added feelings from being intimate.

[Maj]

FWB isn't always the best idea because it's pretty much a certainty that 1 or the other person will want more because of added feelings from being intimate.

This Couldn't be more correct from personal experiences too, you need to ask her if it is just casual or will you guys take the next step, you need to depending on her maturity sit and just talk about whats happening she might say i love spending time with you but i dont want anything yet, now this tells you all you need to know and you may not have told her how you feel yet so sit and talk :)

[ConfusedCupid]

You have to admit the feelings you have for her before it's too late. You'll never know maybe she likes you back.