Is it really possible to love two persons at the same time???

[4evertommysgirl]

It never happen to me but it does to some people including one of my friend. Is it really happening for real? Have anyone experienced this??? "torn between two lovers"

[aussiecoffee007]

mm yes, i think its possible... sometimes its lingering feelings or sometimes its just feeling two different ways with two differnet people or youre in love with different parts of different people and such...

[Jackie]

Well it is possible to love two person at the same time. But ...but...in this situation. A has to love B or C more. No way feelings can be balance. the first member who posted on here is right. Example: A can love B because B is very optimistic person, fun to be with. No pressure at all... and as for C maybe C can help A to realease stress, be a good listener and a good communicator. or either way A and ? don't have time for each other. So time drifted them away and A has a chance to meet someone else. But seriously..in my perspective I think people who can love 2 person at a time is a very selfish person and should go one way or another.

[gardino]

yes, it can happen. But share the same love with two person..? that is impossible...

[mashmac]

I rather think that you can only love one person at the time. certain qualities might appeal to us but to split the love in two? i couldn't do it. In my universe, it's not possible

[Riggs]

It never happen to me but it does to some people including one of my friend. Is it really happening for real? Have anyone experienced this??? "torn between two lovers"


Yes, I guess it could happen. You know..like you like something in one person and other things about another person, and wish you could have all of that in one person. I have never been in love with 2 people at one time.

[DIANACARL02]

It is very possible to love two people at once.
I speak from experiance.
It is a very hard decision for anyone to have to choose between two parts of one heart.
I agree that each love will be on a differant level and differant types.
I thought I was going to fall to peices without either of them.
However one was an ex that did me wrong before, and one was my now hubby(then bf).
I had to visualize my future with each one and decide which one would give me the happiest life.
I am now happily married and the other guy is in prison for child abuse.
I followed my heart and head, thank the great spirit that i chose the right path.

[GeeksAreHotter]

I don't beleive it is possible to love two people at once with the same amount of affection. I think that you can only TRULY be in love with one person, but you may have strong feelings for another. the hard part is figuring out which is the one you truly love.

It's never happened to me before, so I can't speak from experience, but I know I'm in love right now and there strongest i feel for any other girl is feelings of friendship.

So I may not be the best person to comment on this. :D

[Penguin_Woman]

I pretty much agree with you, Geeks. I think you may truly love one and have strong feelings for someone else. :)

[stoner]

This is a very tough topic to talk about for me, as I happen to be a one-woman person. I'm married in the here and now, but prior to meeting my wife, I had dated other women in the past. When the time was right (or so I thought) to get serious in a relationship, I stayed with only one woman. I'm proud to say that I never cheated on any of my ex-girlfriends.

I will admit having affection two women simultaneously, but when it was time to go steady with someone, I stay with one. Shorty after that, the other woman that I admire will be no more than just a friend in my eyes, despite the flirting, hints, etc. that we engaged with in the past.

[Mixed]

Take this from the beginning, I was in love with two brothers. To make matters worse. One of them was my boyfriend, and the other his older brother.

I loved them for different reasons and in different ways, yet I am sure of my love for both. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half but i've known him for 3. and I've been in love with his brother for over 2 years .

It's really complicated. But yes it is possible. you have to be BRUTALLY honest with yourself AND your partner and talk things out fully for you to stand a chance of being together

[aussiecoffee007]

yeah i think that different parts of you can love different parts of other people, or you can be two completely different people around two guys/girls... like they each fulfill a different part of you, but... i think it is complicated but possible...