michealjfox84
11-11-2011, 01:47 AM
Honestly I have had some pretty good success online getting women attracted to my profile, since I started about a month ago I have had numerous phone numbers and texts and phone conversations. like with a dozen girls.
I cant land a date for the life of me!!!!
I meet a girl online, then get her number (the easy part) I think I got that down pretty good. We text a bit, I ask basic questions about her and we start to get to know each other and usually ask if they wanna talk on the phone. I called one girl and she was so damn nervous! then as the conversation went on she got so disinterested I could feel it, I never heard from her again, weird. Another I talked 4 times with then she texts me when I told her I'm coming down in a week for a date that she is dating another guy! Another one I text for two sentences and then never hear from again! out of 10-12 girls numbers I converted that into 0 dates.
Oh ya there was one who said she is willing to meet me and asked where I lived, I replied by saying I look forward to meeting you and this is where I live.... never heard from her again.
My self-esteem is being bruised here (well not really) but I beg the question what in the hell am I doing wrong here? not interesting enough? not challenging enough? too needy? too desperate? Im having a hard time here, I just wanna go out on a date with a normal person for god's sake.
I don't use lame pick up lines, I just ask simple basic questions like I would in real life when I get to know someone, and throw a little humour when I can. I dont text every minute of the day sometimes I make them wait a long time. and to be honest some of these girls are pretty boring im sick of trying to woo them or be the awesome guy that they are looking for, im myself.
I am missing something here! Do I need to make jokes and be a ******** like some player? I dont get it.
Any opinions will be appreciated good or bad.
I cant land a date for the life of me!!!!
I meet a girl online, then get her number (the easy part) I think I got that down pretty good. We text a bit, I ask basic questions about her and we start to get to know each other and usually ask if they wanna talk on the phone. I called one girl and she was so damn nervous! then as the conversation went on she got so disinterested I could feel it, I never heard from her again, weird. Another I talked 4 times with then she texts me when I told her I'm coming down in a week for a date that she is dating another guy! Another one I text for two sentences and then never hear from again! out of 10-12 girls numbers I converted that into 0 dates.
Oh ya there was one who said she is willing to meet me and asked where I lived, I replied by saying I look forward to meeting you and this is where I live.... never heard from her again.
My self-esteem is being bruised here (well not really) but I beg the question what in the hell am I doing wrong here? not interesting enough? not challenging enough? too needy? too desperate? Im having a hard time here, I just wanna go out on a date with a normal person for god's sake.
I don't use lame pick up lines, I just ask simple basic questions like I would in real life when I get to know someone, and throw a little humour when I can. I dont text every minute of the day sometimes I make them wait a long time. and to be honest some of these girls are pretty boring im sick of trying to woo them or be the awesome guy that they are looking for, im myself.
I am missing something here! Do I need to make jokes and be a ******** like some player? I dont get it.
Any opinions will be appreciated good or bad.