westernport
08-24-2011, 07:35 PM
Got a question...
Ok, I have been talking to this girl online for eight months (plus text, phone, etc) and we met briefly at the airport for the first time in July since I passed through her city. We kept talking after the meeting and made plans to meet again. I'm on the East Coast in Maryland; meanwhile, she is in Minnesota. At our first meeting - since she is a big sports fan, and so am I -- I bought her cap and ball from a trip I made.
The initial meeting went great - although brief, and I flew out to meet her over the weekend.
I was in Minnesota from Saturday to Tuesday. I rented a car -- even though she said she would pick me up and take me anywhere -- just case she wanted to bail, or I did and would not be tethered to each other.
She bought two tickets for me to a baseball game, plus offered to pick me up from my hotel and made all these elaborate plans. I offered to pay for the tickets, meals and all -- she refused my money at very corner.
I was well, expecting to walk away without much happening and returning home frustrated. Frankly, I set the bar real low on this, and was not expecting anything -- chemistry, a like for me or otherwise.
The first night, we met up for dinner and spent nearly three hours to together. She thought it was fun. I asked her what made her write me and keep it at it -- she said my fashionable glasses and smile.
So we met for brunch in Sunday, attended a ball game and then went golfing. Also, she made me a gift -- chocolate chip cookies and handed them to me after the day ended.
She found that fun too; therefore, on Monday, she had to work, but took me to lunch at a lake which nearly two hours flew by, got some drinks and then went back to work. That evening, we went out to a ball game.
Afterwards, she dropped me off and wanted to meet me at the airport, but could not. I asked her if her opinion had changed of me on Friday and she said, "no".
We had talked about her coming to my part of the world and while she said she wanted to -- she used the word, 'definitely', she was non-committal st moment and needed to figure out a date to meet again.
She paid out of pocket for everything, and I was shocked at all she did. She refused to take any money from me at all for anything. I was nearly moved to tears after the weekend that someone could do all that for me.
We posed for pictures everywhere we went (literally) and talked about everything under the sun.
I told her, "I don't know how much better it could have gone, I don't know why you did all of this..." She said, "it was my pleasure, and I enjoyed you coming out..."
Ok, it sounds like the greatest weekend ever; however, she never kissed me -- but we did share a hug. I don't know what I should read out if it. Considering my dating experience, I told her that I would love to see her out East, but nothing more than that -- mainly out of utter fear of coming on way too strong. In fact, I may have been way too cool in handling myself and not like declaring anything much at all yet.
I do want to know, what do you read out of this? I don't know if she is 'the one' yet, but I am so attracted her, like her spirit and I'm excited at seeing her again. Again, why would someone go through all of that, if they weren't interested?
We have shared a few texts, that's all in the past day or two. She's got a fairly busy job (she's a hospital administrator). I sent a text this morning to see how she was and what she was up to. She texted me last night, and I didn't get a response back last night, nor in the morning.
Right now, I am playing it cool and won't respond back. The funny things is I am sad -- not because of anything in particular, but because I miss being around her and some uncertainty (it may just be all in my head) if she really liked me.
I'm just going to wait and see. I have not called her anything, not to be pushy. I said that I'd reach her at the end of the week - maybe Thursday/Friday.
Again, how you would all read this?
Ok, I have been talking to this girl online for eight months (plus text, phone, etc) and we met briefly at the airport for the first time in July since I passed through her city. We kept talking after the meeting and made plans to meet again. I'm on the East Coast in Maryland; meanwhile, she is in Minnesota. At our first meeting - since she is a big sports fan, and so am I -- I bought her cap and ball from a trip I made.
The initial meeting went great - although brief, and I flew out to meet her over the weekend.
I was in Minnesota from Saturday to Tuesday. I rented a car -- even though she said she would pick me up and take me anywhere -- just case she wanted to bail, or I did and would not be tethered to each other.
She bought two tickets for me to a baseball game, plus offered to pick me up from my hotel and made all these elaborate plans. I offered to pay for the tickets, meals and all -- she refused my money at very corner.
I was well, expecting to walk away without much happening and returning home frustrated. Frankly, I set the bar real low on this, and was not expecting anything -- chemistry, a like for me or otherwise.
The first night, we met up for dinner and spent nearly three hours to together. She thought it was fun. I asked her what made her write me and keep it at it -- she said my fashionable glasses and smile.
So we met for brunch in Sunday, attended a ball game and then went golfing. Also, she made me a gift -- chocolate chip cookies and handed them to me after the day ended.
She found that fun too; therefore, on Monday, she had to work, but took me to lunch at a lake which nearly two hours flew by, got some drinks and then went back to work. That evening, we went out to a ball game.
Afterwards, she dropped me off and wanted to meet me at the airport, but could not. I asked her if her opinion had changed of me on Friday and she said, "no".
We had talked about her coming to my part of the world and while she said she wanted to -- she used the word, 'definitely', she was non-committal st moment and needed to figure out a date to meet again.
She paid out of pocket for everything, and I was shocked at all she did. She refused to take any money from me at all for anything. I was nearly moved to tears after the weekend that someone could do all that for me.
We posed for pictures everywhere we went (literally) and talked about everything under the sun.
I told her, "I don't know how much better it could have gone, I don't know why you did all of this..." She said, "it was my pleasure, and I enjoyed you coming out..."
Ok, it sounds like the greatest weekend ever; however, she never kissed me -- but we did share a hug. I don't know what I should read out if it. Considering my dating experience, I told her that I would love to see her out East, but nothing more than that -- mainly out of utter fear of coming on way too strong. In fact, I may have been way too cool in handling myself and not like declaring anything much at all yet.
I do want to know, what do you read out of this? I don't know if she is 'the one' yet, but I am so attracted her, like her spirit and I'm excited at seeing her again. Again, why would someone go through all of that, if they weren't interested?
We have shared a few texts, that's all in the past day or two. She's got a fairly busy job (she's a hospital administrator). I sent a text this morning to see how she was and what she was up to. She texted me last night, and I didn't get a response back last night, nor in the morning.
Right now, I am playing it cool and won't respond back. The funny things is I am sad -- not because of anything in particular, but because I miss being around her and some uncertainty (it may just be all in my head) if she really liked me.
I'm just going to wait and see. I have not called her anything, not to be pushy. I said that I'd reach her at the end of the week - maybe Thursday/Friday.
Again, how you would all read this?