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Fierce2490
06-11-2011, 04:45 AM
This seems like a very juvenile of me, but I'm looking for some sort of advice from people who have gone through a similar experience.

I am 21 years old, I have this best guy friend, we hang out ALL the time, have a million and two things in common, and always have an awesome time together. I've recently become single again, and am starting to realize that I sort of have feelings for this guy. Before I really thought about it, other friends of ours were always saying "You guys should date." "Are you guys going to get together anytime soon?" so on and so on. He is always answers something like "No, hahaha" usually without any hesitation. I try to look for hints that he may be interested in me as well, but it seems he is very hard to read =P. I am wondering if anyone has been in this situation and whether you decided to do something about the feelings or just leave it be, and what was the outcome??

**Sapphire**
06-13-2011, 11:26 AM
Welcome to ATLF, glad that you joined us here. :)

Do you think he would be receptive at all if you told him how you felt?

I've been in that situation, but a long time ago. I never told my friend because I didn't think he shared the same feelings. Which turned out to be right as he didn't share the same feelings. Eventually though our friendship ended with us going to different schools etc..

mike12
06-19-2011, 09:05 AM
I had this problem with your best friend until now .. but I can say even if we go to different colleges or places with other bead in all we remained friends after all best friends .. and that to him I told myself that we are best friends and we must be united in this life that otherwise have no chance to even entertain us any one of us ever ... that is if I would be not be a friend know how to say "wrong" we know since I was in kindergarten.