Mysterious girl from sweden

[GaryC]

Hi

basically I met a gorgeous girl in turkey 2 years ago (not another holiday romance i hear you cry lol) and we bothe fell for eachother he moment we saw eachother. we caught eachothers gaze all the time around the pool. so I finally plucked up the courage to speak to her at the pool bar. We exchanged a few stories and intimate moments then exchanged facebooks.

Turns out she a leaving the next day and I ws gutted and considered things done n dusted there n then. Although what would seem to be there after a cringey cyber relationship, we spoke almost every day and had so much in common as well as chatting really deeply connecting more and more each time.

She came here to London not long ago so of course we met up. It was sureal and amazing at the sme time although I had to tone down the London lingo for her...being sweedish n all. The probem was that I didnt completely put my heart and intentions out there for her to see because I was so damn nervous and concious of how she was feeling about me. so thats mistake no:1

...mistake number 2 came at the end of the last night when i took her back to her friends house....I wanted to kiss her and planned to, but as i lent in, for a split second I hesitated and kissed her on the cheek (arrrgh what an idiot)

sooo she goes back to sweden, we talk once more online and she was very suspicious as to why I didnt wear my heart on my sleeve. She also wanted me to kiss her :thumpdown: Now she questions me and my intentions and she has now resorted to the old silent treatmet.

Sorry to waffle on but my question to you is what should i do now? Do i go to sweden and hope to get the connection back somewhat? Or Accept i ****** up and swallow the situation? This all seems like a fairytale story and i should maybe be more realistic considering we live in different countrys, But im the knd of guy who doesnt want to give up on what was really genuine and special untill she cuts me off point blank!


*deep breath lol* sorry again for the life story and i would love to hear some opinions on my dilema :)

[**Sapphire**]

You could be honest with her & tell her that you did want to kiss her & tell her how you feel, but you backed off. You 2 don't really know each other that well & you both live far apart so it's a bit natural to have some doubts/fears & even a little shyness as well.

[GaryC]

Thanks for the reply :thumb:

Thats the thing, the last time we spoke i told her exactly that and really tried to make it clear i was still crazy about her. Just not sure if shes buying it anymore or possibaly given up.

[**Sapphire**]

Have you talked to her about trying a long distance relationship? Maybe she doesn't really want to do something long distance.

Could also be she's playing some kind of game too.

[GaryC]

We have in the begining. Not as mch these days because i find it very hard to get her to open up. She said last time we spoke she still liked me but i think she is either doubting if anything can truely come of it or like you said playing some sort of game and just wont let me know the truth.

[**Sapphire**]

I say leave her be for awhile, no contact & see if she contacts you.

[GaryC]

Thanks, im pretty much doing exactly that. sent her a message saying tell me how you feel when you can and just gona see if she does anything about it!