There ARE Other Fishes In The Sea

[typingdancingqueen]

If you date, you will probably end up breaking up and sometimes they break up with you and sometimes you break up with them. The thing to remember and keep in mind is that this happens to everyone and that it is better that it happens before you get married and remember that it is very true the phrase of "there are other fishes in the sea."

[c_thina00]

Yes thats true, you should move on and don't make your self like a fool, If you think you are attractive then go on and find the right person! Like what she saids there are other fishes in the sea.

[typingdancingqueen]

Yes, people keep saying this and it is very true. It may be hard at first, but believe me, there are other fishes in the sea and the next fishes in the sea are usually 100% better than the last few you found in the sea. If you had known how bad they were when you had them, I think you would have tossed the last few back into the sea before you put them in your fishing bucket so to speak.

[seoboost]

It is sure hard when you are the person that was dumped and was thrown back into the sea, as you have sores all over inside that can't seem to be fixed very well. You spend your time trying to figure out what went wrong, what you said or did that was wrong, and you tend to blame yourself and feel awful. The other party may even blame you for things, and then you feel even worse. The other party may even tell other people what happened and may share things with their families and friends that you feel they should not have said. Then you sometimes no longer even have those friends and no longer even get a chance to see their kids and you miss either their kids or their parents or both, if of course you got to know them. So all in all it's a very rough situation and yet something that all of us go through.

[Tuxie]

So all in all it's a very rough situation and yet something that all of us go through.

This is very true, we all do go through this. None of us like to deal with this, but it's a part of life. If you feel inclined to, why don't we share some experiences with this? Someone else may benefit from what you've gone though. :)

[rohan]

Hey was trying to help a buddy to get over a breakup. Thats when I came across this post. "There are other fishes" Now thats a good one. Will share it with my friend. Apart from that there is also this point I read regarding on how to get over a break up..."dont think of the good times with your ex, but of all the bad times." thought it made sense. The same article had quite a few of pointers. But must agree the "There are other fishes" is an innovative one.

[aussiecoffee007]

i completely understand that saying, but sometimes it doesnt really make you feel any better, its a sort of... "but i dont want any other fishes" thing. i dont know, just keep it in mind.