I'm in love with my lesbian girlfriend (I'm a guy)

[aGUY]

hey there,

I'm in love with my lesbian girlfriend. the thing is... we did sleep togther and she try's to flirt with me, but some time not. She is in and out. I don't know what to do anymore and what to think about it. We have a good relationship! We talk very much.

a little example: Me and my lesbian girlfriend where dancing on a dancefloor. (very intents dancing) and suddenly she kissed a girl from nowhere! when i saw that my hearth just broke in a million pieces, but the strange thing is... every time she breakes my heart, something inside me tells me that she will be mine someday, and that feeling is really strong. i don't have the guts to tell her that i love her. i don't want our relationship will be messed up. She told me that she's gay.

what do i need to do? Just move on? but i just can't. i really tried but i can't.
I will always love her!

please give me some advice!
A desperate guy!

[**Sapphire**]

Welcome to ATLF!

Have you talked to her about it? Has she said she wants to be with women? I suggest you talk to her about it, if she isn't happy being with you, then you may need to let her go.

[Bubblez]

I'm not sure there's much you can do other than talk to her. Yes, it may freak her out but wouldn't you rather have her know than have no idea. If she's your friend, you should be able to tell her anything in my opinion:dontknow:

[hellrazaa]

Give it up she only likes girls it wont change.

[Morbidanteater]

im having the same problem dude.. i love my gay bestfriend she is everything i ever wanted. you should tell her how you feel. and if you two have "slept together" then she isnt gay that sounds like she bi. i told told my bestfriend how i feel and now i get hints that she wants more but im a nice guy and a coward. tell her if she is a girl worth being with she will understand. just talk about it