Not sure what to do

[Parthew]

Hi,

My best friend recently told me she had feelings for me. I pretty much felt the same, but I can't/won't act on them because I dont want to mess up our friendship. So we have been talking off and on about this, and last night I told her that I didn't want to be more than just friends. I said that because we are going to different colleges so we really won't see each other for most of the year and I am not really sure how serious I would be about the relationship. Now, at the time I thought this would work out just fine, I figured that we would both end up happy and where we were before. I feel like I did the wrong thing and im wondering what I should do. Should I tell her how I really feel or just leave it at what it is?

Man...I feel dumb now :(

If this is in the wrong place, Im sorry please move it

[**Sapphire**]

Welcome to ATLF, glad that you joined us here. :)

No worries I moved the thread to the "Friendship" forum.

Do you have more than just friendship feelings for her? How did she react when you told her that you didn't want to be more than friends & your reasons why?

[Parthew]

I do, she seemed really upset. I think I may just tell her how I really feel and see what happens

[**Sapphire**]

I do, she seemed really upset. I think I may just tell her how I really feel and see what happens

Good luck Parthew! :thumb: Let us know how things go when you do tell her.

[Parthew]

It went amazingly well! I told her when we were at a park, we were watching the sunset. And I told her how I felt, it was an amazing feeling.

Reading the topics on this forum helped me do it, so I want to thank everyone here!

[**Sapphire**]

So then it was a good thing that you decided to be honest & tell her how you feel about her?

That's great!

Don't be a stranger, come on back & let us know how you are doing.

[LeilaLee]

That is a good example for beeing honest.