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Davey Crockett
04-05-2006, 04:10 PM
When Discreet Relationship Matters


When discreet relationships occur, it is always up to the person if he or she will continue the act. If they are enjoying it, it is entirely up to them. Individualism is an impossible phenomenon to be analyzed and be understood. This requires a deep self assessment, nothing but you need understanding, just never lie to yourself because if you do, you will get yourself tangled to all the things might turn up.

One should know that a discreet relationship is naturally reflected by your own passion and compassion, virtues and perceptions. This should correspond to the norms of every society. Discreet relationship may be accepted but mostly a taboo and considered immoral. The need for affection is just about the flow of the nerve from the temperature to the brain. These passionate acts are mostly done underground and privately.

Individual involvement to this discreet relationship varies to different causes, first is about the loneliness of being alone. This scenario can give a desire on having to search for someone that can help you to at least forget the feeling of loneliness.

Second is the wrong orientation of individual, in this extend it involves the environment of a person that involve him or her self to this activity.

The third is the act of rebellion; this is mostly referred to women. The act can be caused by her childhood and may be now when she is married. And lastly, the lack of affection from their partners, this pushes individual to have an affair to others that they think can give the affection that they needed.

The person that involve themselves to this discreet relationship cannot be blamed, they are not the predator instead they themselves can be considered as a victim. Just like what philosopher says that in every deed, whether good or bad there will always be a concrete cause.

The outcome of this relationship may give a bad effect to the allocated person that says they are the one that been oppressed because they are the one that been cheated by the person who involved him or her self to discreet relationship. But still consider the impact of the problem to the person that have put him or her self to discreet relationship. Maybe the problem is usually shown into public but the impact is deep inside his or her self.

People would always say that it is bad for an individual to have this discreet relationship, but how about to just pretend that you are happy instead of hiding your feelings. The idea is always bad at first and also the outcome is still negative to society’s junctions, but the feeling is not that bad and not that negative as they always say.

There are different things that have shown up regarding the discreet relationship. Today, are plenty of websites that can help you to find someone to build a discreet relationship together.

Often, they require you to fill up forms that have been prepared for matchmaking, you should also give your e- mail address or any contact number for they can contact or at least inform you that they find someone that is willing to be your discreet partner.

Some websites and individuals hunt down people that involve themselves to discreet relationships, for them, they will study your experience about the pros and the cons of the relationship that you have entered. Some give a reward or a payment for those people that will share their experience, these are most likely to get noticed on sites that offer discreet couple matchmaking.

Discreet relationship is still in line of arguments whether it is bad or not. But never forget the people that you will likely to deceive, always consider all the circumstances beforehand, and lastly accept the several consequences after you did it.

encoder
04-15-2006, 11:28 AM
Discreet relationships is always a compromise. There is no commitment and therefore if one of you gets serious then the other is not oblige to reciprocate that feeling of the first person.

typingdancingqueen
04-27-2006, 09:26 PM
Having a dating relationship can be a bit tricky and it sure can be frustrating and a challenge. It is hard to know how to act or what to say or do, if you get tense. Just be yourself and be honest. It usually seems like at first one of the parties is real serious and the other one just wants to have fun and get to know the other person, and sometimes this can change and sometimes it does not change.

seoboost
05-01-2006, 11:31 PM
Let me tell you, things just aren't what you think they're gonna be! Discreet relationships heck when is that? Your girlfriend tells people things that you told her (thinking she'd be smart enough to not tell others), the girlfriend tells others where you live (when you didn't want others to know). Your former boyfriend shares things about you with his new girlfriend/wife and tells you that she knows all about you (and then you wonder just what did he tell his new girl)... your former boyfriend feels guilty about what the two of you did in a bedroom and so he tells his pastor about it and then you wonder just exactly what did he tell them and why, and then you wonder who knows your secrets and things about you that only that boyfriend should know, when now who knows who knows... so don't go thinking your friends will keep things quiet, as they probably won't!

SillyLittleBoy
07-30-2006, 03:15 PM
"Discreet Relationships" - isn't that just a euphemism for "Having an affair" or "Being unfaithful?"

Either you're the one who is being unfaithful or you're the one inabling or encouraging unfaithfulness.

If you're in a relationship and that relationship is leaving you wanting or you feel there is something missing, then you need to look within the relationship for solutions not outside of it. The true test of a person and a person's ability to truly have a good relationship is their willingness and desire to work through those issues, concerns, and problems that will always arise in any relationship. If the problems are ones that cannot be resolved or overcome and you have given your all to making the best of it, yet the best of it is still not good enough... then GET OUT!

I am reminded of an old proverb, "$hit or get off the pot!"