Plp with cold hearts

[LonelyDaisy]

Everytime I reach out 2 plp I always wind up getting :brick: either by friends or strangers. I d-cided not 2 do it anymore. I've been hurt by friends in the past b/c I always reached out 2 them. Even with strangers. 1time I was in 1 of the group meetings & there was this lady sitting by herself. I went up 2her and tried 2 have a conversation wth her, but she didn't feel like talking, so I bcked away. All of a sudden I heard her tell plp how I approached her and tried to make conversation with her & told them how pathetic I was. :omfg: I got so upset I ran out :crying:, but I went bck & told her off telling her how she behaved so rudely by telling plp about me. She said she's sorry I felt that way, but I thought it was :bsflag: b/c she really didn't care. After that I nver went bck there. Since then I'm afraid to approach plp and talk 2 them b/c I might get the same treatment. I much rather prefer if plp approach me. I'm not going thru this bullsht anymore...


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[lisa843]

Wow...so sorry you had such a bad experience. Don't let ignorant people get you down. There are still plenty of good people "out there" that need someone to "reach out" to them as well. None of us ever really know what or how much a person has been through in life. We ALL have our ups and downs...good and bad. Just don't give up trying to reach out...those you help will be most grateful and appreciative...those that are rude or worse...let them be...just let them be.. and don't waste your time thinking about them. :)

[mashmac]

Hey I like your icon usage! Perhaps you just fall for the wrong people. As Goldie says there are plenty of cool people around. Don't let it get to you. Be positive with yourself and keep on moving...

[Penguin_Woman]

Well, you can't let a few bad apples spoil the bunch. Yeah there's some horrible people out there. But there's also very wonderful people. If your bitter or afraid to get hurt you might not meet them though. :)

[LonelyDaisy]

Well, you can't let a few bad apples spoil the bunch. Yeah there's some horrible people out there. But there's also very wonderful people. If your bitter or afraid to get hurt you might not meet them though. :)Yes I'm afraid to get hurt if I make the first approach, like I said before I'd rather wait until they approach me rather then making the first move.

[LonelyDaisy]

Wow...so sorry you had such a bad experience. Don't let ignorant people get you down. There are still plenty of good people "out there" that need someone to "reach out" to them as well. None of us ever really know what or how much a person has been through in life. We ALL have our ups and downs...good and bad. Just don't give up trying to reach out...those you help will be most grateful and appreciative...those that are rude or worse...let them be...just let them be.. and don't waste your time thinking about them. :) I'm sorry but I'm no longer reaching out to people. If they ask for my help that's one thing, but I'm no longer going to make the first move b/c like you said, some of these people are so ignorant that they do get the best out of me :crying: , like that btch at that group!:mad:

[Riggs]

Everytime I reach out 2 plp I always wind up getting :brick: either by friends or strangers. I d-cided not 2 do it anymore. I've been hurt by friends in the past b/c I always reached out 2 them. Even with strangers. 1time I was in 1 of the group meetings & there was this lady sitting by herself. I went up 2her and tried 2 have a conversation wth her, but she didn't feel like talking, so I bcked away. All of a sudden I heard her tell plp how I approached her and tried to make conversation with her & told them how pathetic I was. :omfg: I got so upset I ran out :crying:, but I went bck & told her off telling her how she behaved so rudely by telling plp about me. She said she's sorry I felt that way, but I thought it was :bsflag: b/c she really didn't care. After that I nver went bck there. Since then I'm afraid to approach plp and talk 2 them b/c I might get the same treatment. I much rather prefer if plp approach me. I'm not going thru this bullsht anymore...


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I don't know what the hell is wrong with people anymore. Other people I know have complained to me on how rude and/or people having an A+ personality. Talk to them and they look right through you, like you are not even there. Just be glad that you are who you are, sweetie. People like that have bigger problems than you do, so instead of getting upset and feeling low about yoursself (feel like ****), just say.. God, this one is yours and let it go.

[LonelyDaisy]

I don't know what the hell is wrong with people anymore.
People like that have bigger problems than you do.

I know certain people have bigger problems then me, but that's no reason for them to make me or others feel like crap... I don't know what's wrong with some people out there?, well then that's their problem... I'm working hard on having a tough skin so that I don't let these idiots :jester: ruin me anymore. Screw them!!:thefinger: If people wants my help I'll let them come to me for help, other wise I'll just focus on myself...:preggers:

[~Teej~]

I think thats a good way to be sometimes..

Take a break, sit back and have some me time..

It'll do you the world of good :)

[Riggs]

I know certain people have bigger problems then me, but that's no reason for them to make me or others feel like crap... I don't know what's wrong with some people out there?, well then that's their problem... I'm working hard on having a tough skin so that I don't let these idiots :jester: ruin me anymore. Screw them!!:thefinger: If people wants my help I'll let them come to me for help, other wise I'll just focus on myself...:preggers:


Sweetheart..don't you know that misery loves company? People that are down hate being around others that are or seem to be more happy than they are, so they are mean to them to make themselves feel a little bit better, and like to see your smile leave your face, love. Keep that smile on your face. :) Oh, hun, about the picture of the face giving the bird. If some mean butt gives you the bird (the finger), don't say behind every bird is a pile of ****. You know what they also say, don't you? The truth hurts and they will want to kick your butt.
Good come back though. LOL