Do Over...

[lisa843]

IF....you could turn back the hands of time, to a period of time when you were younger...or to a certain event.....describe when, what, where and/or why??? Could be anything at all...

[aussiecoffee007]

when i was about 13, i did some really stuipd things that i thought were cool that just ended up either hurting a lot of good people or costing unnecessary and selfish money... id very much like to take back that idiotic phase of mine :)

[lisa843]

I was talking to someone else about this...they said that ALL your bad mistakes...all the good and bad is what shaped you into who you are today. As long as you learned and grew wiser...you are a better person for everything you have been through.when i was about 13, i did some really stuipd things that i thought were cool that just ended up either hurting a lot of good people or costing unnecessary and selfish money... id very much like to take back that idiotic phase of mine :)

[Penguin_Woman]

I don't know that I would. I see things like I saw in movie once. Time is like a river. You toss even a pebble in there, it changes the stream slightly.

[lisa843]

I agree. I am sure we all have regrets..well most of us?? But if we changed things even in a slight way...things might be so different...maybe even worse?? I would not take the risk/chance...it could cost me my kids and they are what really makes my life worth living. :)I don't know that I would. I see things like I saw in movie once. Time is like a river. You toss even a pebble in there, it changes the stream slightly.

[Riggs]

I agree. I am sure we all have regrets..well most of us?? But if we changed things even in a slight way...things might be so different...maybe even worse?? I would not take the risk/chance...it could cost me my kids and they are what really makes my life worth living. :)

I agree. I love my kids very much.

[~Teej~]

I would like to go back and correct a couple of relationships I had....They were really bad mistakes.

[Riggs]

I would like to go back and correct a couple of relationships I had....They were really bad mistakes.

I hear ya.

[aussiecoffee007]

you know, i see how that works, how the bad stuff makes you the person you are, but i wish i coulda learned all of t hat stuff without hurting everyone else :(

[Riggs]

you know, i see how that works, how the bad stuff makes you the person you are, but i wish i coulda learned all of t hat stuff without hurting everyone else :(

Well, at least you will say you did wrong and want to do better. A lot of people will die before they try to do right, muchless say they did wrong.
Smile..you're not such a bad person after all. :)

[lisa843]

I co-sign with that!! very true!! :)Well, at least you will say you did wrong and want to do better. A lot of people will die before they try to do right, muchless say they did wrong.
Smile..you're not such a bad person after all. :)

[aussiecoffee007]

no, i wish i could right what ive done wrong... which is a lot, that stuff just sticks out because i hurt so many good people! that didnt deserve any of it! :(
so i hope they will forgive me one day, so that i can go on forgiving myself, you know?
but thank you for the positive encouragement... :)

[DIANACARL02]

no, i wish i could right what ive done wrong... which is a lot, that stuff just sticks out because i hurt so many good people! that didnt deserve any of it! :(
so i hope they will forgive me one day, so that i can go on forgiving myself, you know?
but thank you for the positive encouragement... :)

I sooo DITTO this!!!!!!! I am just now getting my friends, family, and hubby to start trusting me and seeing that i have changed. There is a long, long list of little dumb moves i wish I could change. Things I know would only make my life now easier.
These little things would not change who and what I am doing or with now!
I could not stand to think of my life without my hubby, friends or family!!!!!

[DIANACARL02]

I did alot the stuff I wanted to change years ago, and now 10 yrs later my family and friends are just starting to see me for the real me and not the selfish, unthinking, terrible person i was to them.
Just do what you know is right in your heart and time will heal their hearts and yours.
Good Luck!:)

[Penguin_Woman]

I need the biggest do-over. I stopped talking to a good friend of mine who then died recently. I never got to say goodbye. I'd do anything for a "do-over"

[aussiecoffee007]

id re-do some decisions i made in eighth grade cuz believe it or not theyve affected my life even now.