Things men / women do that turn you on

[EC]

Quite opposite to the other thread, I want to know things that men and women do that turn you on, make you feel interested, or qualities you're looking for. Doesn't have to be sexually related things.

Mine is going to be about woman since I am a man.

Someone that enjoys cooking, I like cooking awesome dishes and it would be such a great fun cooking up something together.

Someone with great smiles, not talking about nice teeth, soft lips (Though they are definitely a plus!) but genuine smiles from the heart. Especially those that grin and can be cheeky. It makes a whole world of difference!

Women that won't mind physical activities. I love my martial arts, if she knows how to throw me over her shoulder, break my elbow, smash me into the ground, and getting out of grabs and holds, almost half the work of winning me over is done :)

Laughs at my jokes, and throws jokes that make me laugh.

Moderate perfume user, I want to smell it lightly when I get close to you, not when I am standing 3 metres away. And I want to smell it on your skin, not on your clothes.

Dark / brown eyes and dark / dark brown hair, though we can't really choose what we're born with so it's not all that important.

Someone who shares her life with me, if you don't share enough with me, you are not giving me enough chances to love you and you'll never give yourself enough chances for me to let you know me.

[Penguin_Woman]

I love a guy who can make me smile and laugh. I love someone who's a good listener. Someone who let's me be myself. Someone like Tuxie...

[mashmac]

Hard to be generic - I love cooking too but it doesn't mean I am attracted to men who can't cook...

But in an ideal world: a man that enjoys fine food, funny, charming, slim - not too many muscles but certainly not fat, good lovemaking chemistry, - although I went to a party the other night and if I have to say who was the most charming men - it was a funny chubby guy with glasses!

Let's see what else - dark, brown but when I think of it I have been with a couple of blonds...

See - I can't do this :rolleyes: - Sorry EC. Moving swiftly onwards to another member that can...

[~Teej~]

I think that you just love Tuxie full stop :)

[Penguin_Woman]

I think you got that right. :D hehe

[joehash]

Any girl that sings well, and if they don't sing well, that they aren't afraid to at least softly sing along with a song or by themselves. Also, a girl that doesn't necessarily dance well, but will still go out for a dance. Also a girl with a great sense of humor!

[~Teej~]

Someone who can sing and play the guitar ( there own stuff ) that gets me big time.

And also has long hair and an eyebrow piercing ;)

[Penguin_Woman]

Yeah I used to dig those things too. Now I like intelligent guys who are...good with their hands. I like them there "techie types"

[luke]

a girl who is very fit but prefers just hanging in sweats and a baseball cap. that's HOT to me.

[T12am]

Someone conservative... someone tall...

[daisychip]

HANDS!!..............big and strong!!

[aussiecoffee007]

same daisychip! i can have an affair with someones hands :)

[daisychip]

Thats it Aussie!!.................thats exactly the description needed, an affair with the hands!!!!!...........lol.

[DIANACARL02]

I maybe wierd but something about a man in just a towel fresh out the shower gets me goin, goin, gone.:D

[aussiecoffee007]

hehe daisychip its so true... if he puts his hands anywhere on my face all of a sudden im fixated on them and i compeletely ignore the rest of him haha

[DIANACARL02]

My hubby also has this look he gives me when we are lovin on each other and sometimes he'll give me that look across the dinner table and my whole insides turn to butterflies and I feel the same way as when he first looked at me and i felt like some little silly girl gone shy. My knees go weak and I am his anytime & anywhere.

[~Teej~]

I maybe wierd but something about a man in just a towel fresh out the shower gets me goin, goin, gone.:D


I am going to agree with you on this one..That would totally get me going..knowing I could pull it down and there will be nothing underneath..hubba hubba :)

[aussiecoffee007]

yeah, dianacarl i totally agree... there sometimes these heated eyes or this look that gets me all heated as well :)

[miSSleepy]

Someone that enjoys cooking, I like cooking awesome dishes and it would be such a great fun cooking up something together.


Women that won't mind physical activities. I love my martial arts, if she knows how to throw me over her shoulder, break my elbow, smash me into the ground, and getting out of grabs and holds, almost half the work of winning me over is done :)



:rolleyes:
I'm into martial arts, I LOVE wrestling and hence BJJ. I get out of holds and locks easily because I'm flexible and people find it hard to put me into chokes. Sorry, had to mention it!

[aussiecoffee007]

what is bjj ?? :confused:

[miSSleepy]

Brazillian jiu Jutsu

[hihihihi]

perhaps, whether a man or woman, take off their clothes???

[AnnaKate]

I'm definitely attracted to nice guys who are kind and respectful toward everyone.

[eaglebaseball]

girls who are good looking, but aren't perfect
girls who are funny, but can still be serious
girls who are polite, but still can be dirty
girls who are girly, but aren't too prissy
girls who dress provocatively, but not slu**y
girls who are intellectual, but not geniuses
girls who aren't too emotional, but aren't stone cold either
girls who play sports, but aren't manly
girls who know how to work, but also don't mind being taken care of
girls who care about their looks, but don't obsess over them

yeah, I'm pretty darn picky. Luckily I've got a girl who is all of those things...