Should I forget about him or hold on to hope?

[ketchup]

Okay so me and this guy started tallking through texts, IMs, emails etc. (We met on a social networking website) We continued our "Cyber Relationship for about 5 months and he said he liked me and I liked him. We met around the 6th month at a local bowling alley. For some reason I kind of got nervous, like even though I liked him I didn't even kiss him! After the night ended I just went home and so did he. I noticed that he didn't IM or text me first after that day. And then we just stopped talking, and I haven't talked to him since (It's been about 5 months). What should I do? I keep hoping that one day he's gonna call me or something but I don't think its happening. Should I call him or text him?

[**Sapphire**]

Well, I'm sorry to say, but maybe when you 2 met, he realized you 2 weren't a good fit & he disappeared afterwards.

It's wrong & the cowards way out to just up & not respond to anything, but you can't make someone be adult enough to be honest.

Plus, unfortunately that happens alot online, it's easy to disappear or become someone else & just not be honest, upfront & say, "I'm sorry, we just didn't gel when we met in person". Or something to that effect.

Best advice I can give you is to forget it, it's been 5 months of him not bothering to talk to you. Move on & maybe find someone else.

[ketchup]

Thanks Sapphire. I kinda knew this is what I had to do the whole time, but I just think I needed to hear to it from someone else. It kind of "reassures" me. Thank God I haven't made an attempt to talk to him lately because I've REALLY been tempted to that lately =/

[**Sapphire**]

You're welcome. :) Don't give up hope yet with chatting to people online, there are good people out there. There will also be a good man out there that will be honest & upfront too.

Stick around here to post with us, there's alot to read & post to here. :)