I'm a bad person.

[cranberries]

I dont know. I feel pretty bad right now. So Danny, the guy I like... he was spose to break up with his girlfriend but still hasnt. He told me he was talking to her and she has a clearer understanding on how he feels about things. Well anyways, she contacted me today. Said she wanted to be friends. So we talked for about 2 hours, but we didnt talk about him or anything. Just about school, and usual stuff. She didnt seem mad, she was talking about things she needed to change. She's cool, like someone I would hang out with.

yeah so I feel bad. I didnt want to steal someone from anyone. But it happened on accident and it was so fast. I let my feelings slip and he just started with that and was thinking all of a sudden. I wasnt trying to do anything, I wasnt trying talk him into anything. I was just listening to what he thought about the situation. He was telling me he was just realizing things about how his life is right now and was really excited that I liked him. But I'm just trying to make excuses to make myself feel better I guess.

What should I do? I like him, but I hate the idea that I could be breaking up a relationship that they could both be really happy in. I just want him to be happy. Is there anything I could do? I guess the damage is already done though.

[eaglebaseball]

If she doesn't know yet, she'll probably be ****** when she finds out she was dumped because of you.

Thats just what I think, but I don't think your a bad person. If I was dating a girl, and things werent going great, and the girl I really wanted to be with told me she liked me, I'd end it quick and start over with the other girl.

Maybe thats why I don't have a girlfriend, I'm too scared to ask.

[aussiecoffee007]

if hes worth the wait, then wait for their relationship to just naturally end and wait a bit before asking him out or dating him--if you two do become friends, ask her before you do. thats what i would do :)