I want this to work, but I don't think he does.

[Arielle]

BASICALLY

I have been with my boyfriend for about two weeks officially. We had a fling over the summer and then as we came back for school (I'm 17 btw) we only saw each other at parties at the weekend because he boards at another school quite a long way away from me during the week.

It's clear we really liked each other, but last night at a party was the only time I had seen him since we were 'official'. It was really nice to see him but it was just really weird.

Every time I spoke to another guy he would get really antsy and be like 'what are you doing? Stay with me.' But then straight after, he would then say 'be right back, stay there.' And then he would go and talk to some really hot girls and just forget about me.

Then we met again and had a very heated make-out session. Between kisses he would say "I don't see how this is going to work. I get really angry when I'm at school and I know you're here with other people. You might cheat on me." Then I would assure him that I only had eyes for him and would never do that. Then he would say "I don't know. I don't think it will work."

He carried on doing this whilst kissing me, telling me he loved me and how beautiful I was. It was very weird. But I went a long with it.

I tried to talk to him after the party, but he was very standoffish. We left on not a very good note. Then, I tried to talk to him online, and he was just very blunt and not like himself.

I don't know what to do. I hope you understand this situation. I just really like him and don't want to lose him but I feel like he's trying to make excuses to break up with me.

PS. If this helps, we used to date for two years when we were like 12, and he hasn't had a girlfriend since. I would be his first and only proper girlfriend. And he isn't exactly a sincere person.
If this doesn't make sense, just ask me some questions!

[love her 4 ever]

look.. i dunno i think he is like using u remember man seeks for sex women seeks for love i know u are searching for the proper guy to understand u and know ur fellings but i think he is using u as if he loved u he would love for u what he love for him self and as u said about talking to hot girls he didnt do so and if he really and trully love u he would trust u and always remember u are only 15 year old and that`s your 1st xp.

And it was never about years and how long coz ur mind andhow u think change when u are mature this happened to me i had my relative i raised with him since 4 tell 13 when we reached 14-15-16 we were tottaly diff. minded with diff friends and diff.type of thinking socilly and pphisically .etc


u should face him and ask him about all your fears and you both should put an end to this and if he left u dont get so dissapointed u surely deserve better u deserve who understand your feeling and share his with you :D dont talk with each oher while kissing etc..... useless talk face to face fully minded coz u both should judge ur selves and think about what u did right and wrong

then u would be able to know it will work or not:D

[**Sapphire**]

I'm thinking that he may have some insecurity issues being in a long distance relationship.

If you were his first relationship when you 2 were 12 & then now, he may not know how to react.

I think the best thing you can do for now is try to have a talk with him. Talk to him about why he was doing & saying the things he was at the party. Tell him that you love him & only him & if he does truly love you, he would know & trust in you that you wouldn't cheat on him.

Have that talk first & then based on whatever may be said during that talk you can go from there.