Are people to busy for friends

[Rockchick]

I like and kind fancy this guy who is really my sisters friend, he is hot and a band manager and I was with him once excluding sex and we agreed to be friends but now he tells my sis that he is too busy for friends. Why does he nor want me as a friend if he thinks I am cool, a nice girl and he likes me. He is back with his ex-girlfriend Paula. His name is Noel and he doesn't contact me at all now since I asked in front of him and paula if they were together but I sent an appology text afterwards. He did call me "Very "Hot and I sent him a friendship letter which also says that I want to be with him if he wanted me and wasn't with Paula. He told my sis he wants no letters or emails from me so what is going on??? Whats wrong with my friendship?:dontknow:

[**Sapphire**]

I see that you figured out how to make your own thread, good Rockchick. :)

Maybe he just doesn't want to be friends with you. It could be that when you told him that you wanted to be with him, it put him off. Plus now he has a girlfriend & that is to be respected.

Best thing you can do is no contact, see if he will contact you. If he doesn't then it's not that big of a loss. Unfortunately, friendships come & go, people just grow apart or stop talking for whatever their reasons. :(