Is she Flirting ???

[darkness]

Hi there is this girl at work who i really really like. But it is
really hard to tell whether she is flirting back or being friendly. As
far as i know she is in a serious relationship, but she seems to act
differently with me than with other people. For example when i make fun
of her, she always makes fun of me, yet when other people do it, she
doesn't do anything. She is forever doing things to try
and annoy me. Am i totally barking up the wrong tree here, where as in
fact she probably hates me? Let me know

[Tuxie]

Hiya darkness, welcome to ATLF! I'm so glad you stopped by and joined us. I hope you find this a friendly place to come and post.

Well, it certainly sounds like she at least thinks of you differently than everyone else. The question is, is it just because she thinks of you as a friend or does she actually see you as more than just a friend. Since you say she is presently in a 'serious relationship', there wont be an easy answer to this one. As I see it... I think you're just gonna hafta come right out and ask her, outright. I know, that's tough to do... but, you're just gonna hafta lay it out to her... just like you did to us.

I hope this has helped. Keep us updated. :)

[mashmac]

Hmm - I would say something about you attracts her although she herself might not be totally aware of it. But serious relationship - no go zone for you. If she does care about you more than she should - let her make the move. And you shouldn't focus on her and hope, it could cause you some serious pain: she is currently not available.

[aussiecoffee007]

yeah, i wouldnt go for her until she is out of that serious relationship, you dont want to be caught in the middle of that drama for a girl who you dont even know if shes flirting definitley or not. if she wants you to the extent of more than a friend, trust her to make the right choice--break up with her guy--then make your move.