Question for the man/women

[gaddes]

what are somethings that man/woman have done that have really just turned you off? To the point where you just want to call it off right then and there

[aussiecoffee007]

no one has done something to turn me off right then right there, if they are mean to other people or rude, it turns me off, but not immediately.

[Penguin_Woman]

Hmm...well...I hate to say it, but on a couple occasions, how the guy looked turned me off right away. One was because he looked...and smelled like he had not bathed in quite a while. The other?

Well when I was 19, I had been talking to this guy on this phone dateline, on and off for several months. He called himself "The Poet". He told me only that he had long black hair and brown eyes. At the time I liked those things (still love brown eyes :D hehe). Well, after several months of corresponding we finally made arrangements to meet. So he came over to the apartment I shared with my ex bf and his ex-fiancee (don't ask...long story). I went to open the door, looked through the peephole and it looked like a darker-haired Charles Manson was at my door. lol In my defense, I was young and had built him up a great deal in my mind.
At any rate, we did go out but it was the first and last time. Not just for the looks reason. It just wasn't gonna work.

[Daisy duke]

i know one..........met a man ...before we met in person .we spoke on the phone we were arranging to go for a meal ...i tld him about this place i know of ...he siad " its not too expensive is it ".......i laughed said erm ......no ....it just put me off ..met him ..he said he was joking but his fate was sealed....hahaha

[lisa843]

being or having a nasty attitude or B.O.what are somethings that man/woman have done that have really just turned you off? To the point where you just want to call it off right then and there

[EC]

Might not be a total STOP sign but these are the ones I find are really turn-offs. These applies to women because I am a man:

Bushes of hair under armpits :rolleyes:
Women that think smoking is sexy
Blowing cigarette smoke in my face :rolleyes:
Two-faced and deceiving, it show the level of immaturity.
Picking nose :(
Not brushing teeth :(

[lisa843]

yeah...smoking is another one to add to my list...lol :)

[~Teej~]

Yeah, smoking is gross, but it wouldn't put me off a guy. As long as he didn't do it around me and didn't smell of it the whole time I would be okay with it.

[Penguin_Woman]

Yeah, I don't like smokers either. My ex is a smoker. Never again. Also, it'd turn me off if the guy was a heavy drinker. Luckily, Tuxie is neither. :D

[Lorna]

I think that Gaddes was talking about something a guy or girl has done or will do who will turn you off.
Not appearance, and smoking is not a sin.
I will say being deceitfull, dishonnest, not keeping his word, not telling the truth, not telling his feelings, being too attach to appearances and how people look at him, being more attached to how people perceived him than to us.
A big turn off is being vulgar or disrespectfull, and to have no sense of humor.

[tweety]

i talked to someone for about two months and then set a meeting, what turned me off was the way he looked at me. Cant explain it, but it was kinda disrespectful look :(, nothing could bring that relationship back.

[joehash]

A big thing that turns me off is never wanting to do anything I suggest, whether it be ice skating, going to the zoo, or whatever. But I usually get over that...

[Penguin_Woman]

A big thing that turns me off is never wanting to do anything I suggest, whether it be ice skating, going to the zoo, or whatever. But I usually get over that...
That's understandable. You gotta be willing to compromise sometimes

[DIANACARL02]

being stood up!
I was suppose to met this guy and we had planned this meeting for weeks, and then he stood me up.
I stayed for 2 hours after our meeting time before i went home.
That was two years ago, I never heard from him since.:confused:

[**Sapphire**]

I had met this guy online before my current fiance. We talked for a while & then met in person. We had a nice time together & enjoyed 1 another's company. Then after we decided to make a go of a relationship, he broke dates constantly. I stuck with him for close to 3 months & in that time I think I saw him like 4 times. Each time it came to the day that we would see each other he had some kind of catastrophe happen, something with his sister, etc., etc.. It wouldn't have been that bad if we could have at least spoken on the phone, but I couldn't even get the chance to talk to him on the phone. I had more talks with his voice mail than him.

So I would have to say what turns me off is someone who wants to make a commitment, but then makes no time for me or for the relationship to grow.