Question!

[Confused112]

there is a woman, her name is Kelly...she is from brazil, and I am in USA. I was wondering if it was possible to be in love with her even though i never met her? she seems to think so. she'll devote the first 30 minutes or so of me being logged in to talk to me, seriously. and i appreciate that, i really like to talk to her. but after that, it depends, sometimes she gets really busy, or just plain busy. she tries to talk to me, but sometimes it feels like i am being ignored and it hurts, like im not good enough. but then shell assure me, that i am better than good enough. i met her on a chess server, and thats where most of the talking takes place. she has many duties there:administrator, tournament manager, relayer, public relations...she just recently got all of those positions.

i am constantly thinking about her. about what she doing, how shes doing, what to talk to her about...i think she is so amazing. i always let her know how amazing she is to me, and how beautiful she is, and i think i love her...but im not quite entirely sure.

everyonce in awhile, i find myself dreaming about her. and i can never stop thinking about her...i hardly want to go to sleep because i think about her that much. i miss her so much, even though i never met her.

she is very kind to everyone at that server, but she says i am the only one who really talks to her the way i do...

she says she will move to the states in one year, and I am longing for that moment. just to hold her in my arms....

there are so many things i want to talk to her about, and learn from her....but i dont know what to talk to her about...i would ask her questions, but im not so sure about what to ask either.
if you could help me with that, it would be just great!

sometimes, i close my eyes, and i see her picture.


it feels like i have so much more to say, but i cannot think of anything.
if you need to know any additional information, i will post it later, also ask me questions please.
please, let me know if im in love.

i think i am deeply in love, but im not too sure.

[Penguin_Woman]

Well, how long have you known each other? Have you ever talked on the phone? About how often do you chat online? Are you both single? Do you do anything more than just chat for 30 minutes here and there? Like do you still play chess together, things like that? My guess is your just infatuated with her. I do beleive you can fall in love without meeting. I fell for Tuxie before I ever met him. But, we talked like everyday several times a day both online and on the phone. Perhaps you could fall for her once you meet. But time will tell. Let us know how it goes. :)

[Confused112]

well, weve known each other for about 6 months now. we have never talked on the phone, its pretty complicated calling another country, quite expensive too...we do a lot more than just chat 30 minutes here and there, but thats the time that she devotes especially to me. we talk from about the time i get home (3:30) for a long time after that. when she is busy, she always read and sometimes replys to what i have said. we still play chess together, but not too often anymore.