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Davey Crockett
04-05-2006, 04:03 PM
10 Tips for having a Healthy Relationship


Everybody in this world have a relationship to other individuals, either it’s a family relationship, friends relationship and even love relationship. There is no such thing as to having no relationship.

The main foundation of a relationship is love. According to the saying “love conquers all” which is partly true among individuals. You do not want to do something that will harm your partner.

In order to keep the relationship stronger, here are 10 tips on how to have a good and healthy relationship.


1. Spending quality time to one another is one of the most important things to do. At least spend an hour or a day together to catch up for lost time. Without the quality times, your relationship will fail and will not survive.

2. Learn to give and tak. A good relationship shares something to another person. Learn how to appreciate one’s goodness. Don’t be shy to appreciate your gratitude to one another, it helps strengthen the relationship.

3. Be dependent to yourself however let your partner feel that you need him. Do not cling too much to your partner, sometimes clinging too much to your partner cause the relationship to break up.

4. Give small token for appreciation to your partner. Show interest to your partner if they are talking. Always try to listen when they important things are being dealt with, it would be an insult if you play around if things are to be taken seriously so give respect to your partner if they are talking.

5. You can ask for appreciation to your partner and make the person agree to you. It does not mean that you have to be appreciated by your partner all the time. Try to make some comments about your self to and ask for his opinion.

6. Love and accept your partner as to what he or she is. Sometimes the individual differences are the main ingredient in having a strong relationship and keeping the relationship intact.

7. You should have a respect to one another. Giving respect to your partner shows greatly how you love the person. When you respect the person, it will likely always go along with the flow. Respect is a very big statement that needs to be maintained as it should show more in action, not in words.

8. In every little thing that has done to you by your partner, do not ignore it. Don’t forget to say thank you to your partner. A very simple word, but has a great impact that makes your partner’s heart feel great as they are appreciated.

9. Do not hesitate to open up to your partner. Be honest and tell everything you think that they should now. Secrets are sometimes the cause why people quarrel.

10. And to top it all be faithful to your partner. Always make it to the point that you remain loyal to your partner. This does not mean that you don’t have to mingle with your opposite sex. Always trust your partner in whatever he/she does if you really love him/her.

By means of the tips mentioned above, it will help you to have a healthy relationship. This will help you to analyze yourself if you are doing this to your partner. If you are not then now is the time for you to improve yourself and cope up for the lost times with your partner for the stability of your relationship.

encoder
04-16-2006, 05:11 AM
Sometimes even if you do all those tips above, there are circumstances that will make your relationship not too successful, sometimes even lead to breaking up. I say this based on my experience. Sometimes too much of these advices will damage the relationship. The other party might think that she's not equally reciprocating the good things I have done to her.

c_thina00
04-16-2006, 09:47 AM
Some problems are dishonesty, and some misunderstanding! That will gonna break your healthy relationship, and of course the Third party, most relationships having that kind of problem!

seoboost
05-01-2006, 12:09 AM
Gee those points above are sure all very important and things to definitely keep in mind while dating or being engaged or married to another party.

Always better to talk and share and open up to the other person and tell them where you go and what you are doing, where you went over the weekend, what you did doing the week. Talk to them about your goals and your work, if you do work. If you had past jobs, talk to them about your past jobs. If you had past relationships, talk to them about your past relationships. Then the person will feel that they know you better and they will usually end up opening up to you more, as you shared with them.

david616098
09-13-2006, 07:36 PM
I agree very nice tips. I think communication is also important . It sounds simple but it is very difficult once its missing its just a matter of time before the relationship goes down the drain.