What do you do when you are feeling so vexed?

[pika]

Before i met her, i can be call trouble free....my life was so fun...my friends love the old me...now i met her....i got so much things to think through day and night...and sometimes it is so vexing.....especially when i need concentration....

so how do you guys throw aways problems that keep reappearing in your mind?
What are some of the stuff you do during sadness?

[summit]

What confuses me is you say your up at night thinking about it and such, but what is there to think about?

She has been clear about how her feelings are, as you have as well, and its been expressed that there is no relationship possibility. So now all you have to think about is whether you can be just friends with her, and so far, cleary you cannot, so deep down you probly already have the answer to your problems and know what you need to do if you want your normal life back.

Pika, do you have a history of wanting things you cannot have? not only women, but anything in life? It just seems to me that before you even date a girl, you already know she is not the one for you, or not available, yet your pursue anyways setting yourself up for pain.