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guz02
04-15-2007, 08:38 AM
ok heres the situation.
there is a girl that i really like that ive met twice who is best friend whith a friend of mine. they are apart of a 3 best friend group.

first time i talked to her she it was in a pub. i kinda made a fool of myself asking the same question seconds later. after that she gave me a cold shoulder for the rest of the night.

then the next time i was out with my friend asked me a few times if i liked her. but im no sure if that came because i was asking about her or if there was another agender.

the we were at a party alltogether she remember my name wich was nice. she was nicer to me but she made fun of that night a few times to other people around me, also how she gave me a cold shoulder. also the problem lies where my friend tell the other 2 friends everything. the other girl is really mean and antimen. so if i ask my friend if she likes me they are all going to know, it would be alkward and i hope not teased every time we meet with the group(if she doesnt like me). and they talk about everything.

do women sometime act like that because they like you?
or does she just dislike me?
i dont know what to do?
what should i ask my friend or even the girl i like?

im also confused what to talk the her about on a date, she a stranger to me and ive only ever dated people i know well so all that small talk, friendship stuff is done.

im so confused and cant get her out of my head

aussiecoffee007
04-15-2007, 05:22 PM
ive never experienced giving someone the cold shoulder when i liked them... but the making fun of the night miiiight be a cover-up... but if she ever makes fun of YOU (sorry im a bit unclear if she did or not) i wouldnt get my hopes up that she is interested... :(

guz02
04-16-2007, 05:47 AM
it wasnt a cold shoulder as such, she just didnt really talk to any of the guys. i tried talking to her but it was hard to get convo started

it wasnt really making fun of me. she kind of didnt really talk to me or my friends the first time we met. apparently she felt bad about it? so the second time we met my friend asked her why she gave us the cold shoulder. she replied with something like "i was giving him the cold shoulder" pointing at me. i dont know if was supposed to be a joke or not?

Penguin_Woman
04-16-2007, 11:53 AM
Well, it would seem to me maybe she does like you...but probably more as a friend than anything. a lot of people like tojoke around with there friends. But, if she likes you as a friend maybe try going out somewhere as friends...maybe it could become more. Good luck. :)