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dutchdiosa
01-25-2009, 02:52 AM
Alright, so I am not going to go into major details, but lets just say my so called "best friend" stabbed me in the back. There was some debt incurred that I took responsibility for, honest mistake on my part. I admitted it and took responsibility to pay it back. Anyway, she supposedly was "academically dismissed," which I don't even know is the truth now...from our University. Also, she wanted to turn my into the police so she could get her money back. However, this is someone who sat there in FRONT of me and told me that she would let me take a little time knowing I had NO JOB for quite sometime and was JUST getting myself back on my feet. Then I saw her this past Tuesday and she was all like ****** about Pace and **** and then was like, "Oh yeah, we'll party for St. Patrick's Day." RIIIIGHT...whatever woman.

Two days later, I get a call from my Dad telling me her Mom called and Kristen was "disgusted with me" and that she wanted to turn me into police. Whatever...yet this is the girl that I bailed out of jail, helped her recover from anorexia, and helped her through her cutting phase. Yet when I NEEDED my "best friend" she was nowhere to be found. Like with the Omar situation. When I started my relationship with Omar...she wanted nothing to do with me. When it ended, she was happy. Like I don't know what the heck her problem was. Also, when she left on Tuesday with her crap she forgot the 15 BOTTLES of various volumes of alochol in her desk drawer...something I knew NOTHING about. Anyway so my family helped me fix that crap today, but yeah supposedly she wasn't academically dismissed...she is going to a better University. Well, she was on academic probation three times, I doubt that...I feel like her parents lied just to make them seem like she wasn't just holding a gripe about her whole life because she is a failure.

Well to make a long story short, our friendship is over and she lost MANY other friends along the way. Whatever she lost a good friend and was never there for me. So she can bite my arse. I was ALWAYS there, I made a SMALL mistake that really didn't require police because it wasn't like thousands or anything, but apparently she was too unhappy with her life. I hope her being 21 with her 38 year old boyfriend treats her well. When he breaks her heart...I won't be there this time and she will have no one but a bottle of booze. Anyway...that is what happened but here is my advice...watch out for people that ALWAYS depend on YOU but are never THERE FOR YOU.

Love you all!
~dutchdiosa

daisychip
01-25-2009, 03:03 AM
Sorry to hear about the drama with your 'friend'. Some people just suck the life out of everyone around them but don't seem to store any up to give back.

**Sapphire**
01-25-2009, 09:23 PM
Sorry to hear about that dutch, but at least she is out of your life now, toxic friends are not needed.

I've been there done that with friends before, I got rid of most of them out of my life & now I only have a very small handful of real friends & people I can truly call my friends & trust. I've very happy to have them in my life as well.

That girl will get her Karma in the end, they all get their Karma in the end.

lisa843
01-25-2009, 11:58 PM
that sucks....sorry to hear you lost a friend....

But I agree with Sapphire and Daisy....
it was for the best...because she was not a true friend.... If she was not there for you when you needed her..like you were for her....

Be thankful that NOW you know...and you can move on...

dutchdiosa
01-26-2009, 02:00 AM
thanks everyone. i really appreciate the support! i am at a point where i need to worry about me. let her deal with herself and her problems. well...smile everyone!

**Sapphire**
01-26-2009, 11:45 AM
thanks everyone. i really appreciate the support! i am at a point where i need to worry about me. let her deal with herself and her problems. well...smile everyone!


You said it best dutch, it's time to take care of you & yours hun! It's not selfish either, it's the way it should be, YOU are the only 1 that will take care of YOU when it's needed.

rubybliel
01-27-2009, 04:43 PM
*sigh* the poor stupid girl was really only hurting herself in squandering a precious friendship like the one with you dutchdiosa. Sapphire is right about true friends being hard to come by. Don't we all fear that a real life friend will turn out to be - imaginary 0_0

dexter
10-30-2010, 05:02 PM
so sorry to read this.. Well its time to left that girl with her own issues and thats it. And I hope that you feel better a soon as posible.

hellrazaa
04-16-2011, 05:05 AM
never trust anyone around your man or woman