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kaydee
03-28-2007, 08:36 PM
Well, things between my ex and I have gotten rather sour.

He has been dating another girl for about 2 months, and has called me 5 or 6 times to tell me to stop "harassing" her. Apparently she tells him that I scream at her constantly and play the typical jealous ex girlfriend part, when I really don't.

Anyhoo, my ex is going to be leaving town for about 4 months during the summer, and plans on attempting to keep his relationship with his new girlfriend alive until he gets back. However, I recently found out the his new girlfriend is planning on seeing one of her exes while he is away; she plans to go to a concert with him. This wouldn't be a big deal if I didn't know that her ex still has feelings for her (I've talked to him about it) and that they are going out of state for the a weekend.

Now I don't know what to do. I could ignore it, and just let her cheat on him, or I could warn him, knowing full well that he will most likely just get angry with me.

What should I do?

mashmac
03-28-2007, 08:50 PM
Why do you think she might cheat? Perhaps a bunch of them is going? Perhaps
her boyfriend already knows? I am not sure you should get involved. Do you have feelings for your ex as it sounds like you do. Are you hoping this might get him back?

I am not sure that getting involved between two people is the right thing to do.

Penguin_Woman
03-28-2007, 09:18 PM
I'm in agreement. You can't know her mind and you don't know all the details. But...even if you knew 100% that she was going to cheat. It's not your place to say. He probably wouldn't listen or beleive you anyway