what 2 do

[dontmatter]

Alright need some help, about now im so fed up with this crap it isnt even funny. first off her parents dont like me, i have never done a thing wrong, i play with her little brother help him with homework and im nice all the time and for some reason they still dont like me and will do anything possible or make any excuse so we cant be together but it isnt going to tear us apart i am not going to be someone else just so they will like me and i have tried being nice anyone got advice?

we have been together for 11 months and it will be a year on april 17 .. everytime we fight she brings up breaking up but when we dont fight we are the happiest couple ever. only thing is, pretty much all we do is fight.

anyone on this forum other than me?

[Tuxie]

anyone on this forum other than me?
First, welcome to ATLF. :)

Secondly, there are other members here... but we are not packed. If you are wanting immediate answers, you may not get that here. I'm not saying we're not interested, just saying that you may hafta wait a bit. If you don't have the patience, you may want to look elsewhere for a forum.

I'll look at your post in a bit, someone else may post a response in the meantime.

[Penguin_Woman]

Welcome to ATLF. Ok now I take it your speaking of your gf. How old are you? How old is she? What is it your arguing about? Is there some reason her parents don't like you? Have you ever been in trouble? Do you not do as well in school? (I'm guessing your still in school). You weren't real clear in your post. btw...I combined your posts. No need to post multiple times..edit your post or wait for a reply

[Tuxie]

Here's an idea. Have you ever tried talking to her parents? Maybe you need to share with them how you feel. Quite possibly, they just might tell you why they feel the way they feel. This way, you won't hafta keep guessing about the reasons why they don't like you. Trust me, life is too short to play games.

[aussiecoffee007]

if you guys are always fighting, that probably has less to do with her parents than you think... and perhaps they just dont think you are a good choice, for some crazy reasons or another... i dont know. tell her that youre not in a relationship with her parents and they will come around, dont worry. until then... hang in there :)

[EC]

First you both must recognize that couples who don't fight are either ignorant or don't care enough to fight. Stay up and fight, don't go to bed mad, trust me on this one.

Fights are common, fights are normal, fights are the usual things we do. A couple consists of 2 people, from different backgrounds, thinking, ideas and egos. It's not whether or not you FIGHT or DO NOT FIGHT, it's what you do, how you react, and what you've learned in each fight you had and how you will apply it in the future.

A couple can only get stronger if they learn from their mistakes, more importantly, learn from others' mistakes. But it takes two to tango, if you're the only one working on the relationship, get your partner to participate and get understanding about each other. Find a reason why you fought, and why you and your partner are angry.

Common rules, never leave it too long before making up and talking to each other again, and never approach too quickly while the stove is still too hot.