Will appreciate and remember the good things a person has done for you?

[pika]

Not sure how many of you will......

How many of you will always remember the nice things that a person has done for you?
Even if you do not like the person?
Somehow for me i felt that sometimes things done for one person can be very touching and very moving but once the thing has past, not many will still remember. It happen for a moment and you will kind of forget it after a day of 2......

For a person you like, the slightest thing he has done can make you remember for life........

[Penguin_Woman]

Interesting question. I think I can honestly say yes. Even if I don't like the person I remember the nice things they did. Of course it's easier when you like the person, but I still remember either way

[pika]

so tuxette when and what was the last thing that a person you are not so close doing for you? can you remember????

Actually sometimes i feel that if one person seeking the attention of another to do nice things for that person.....he or she might face disappointment.

But then again, if you are only willingly doing things for a person not wanting his or her attention, then why do it in the 1st place??? No one will do things that has no objective......:p

[Penguin_Woman]

Well, my ex has done nice things for me in the past. Just it didn't change anything...but I do acknowledge it was nice. Just not always done for the right reasons

[aussiecoffee007]

i remember the nice, even if i dont like the person... sometiems it helps me overcome my dislike, or it just humanizes the person in my eyes. either way isss all good :)

[EC]

Tuxette, what nice things did he do and why it didn't change anything?

Many comments are too generalized, more information can give hints and advises at the same time so it helps others :) or maybe I am just too nosy.

[Penguin_Woman]

Tuxette, what nice things did he do and why it didn't change anything?

Many comments are too generalized, more information can give hints and advises at the same time so it helps others :) or maybe I am just too nosy.
Yeah...maybe the second thing. lol I just don't like to get into much. I'll put it this way...he thought money could buy everything...like happiness or my love. He was wrong

[mashmac]

No matter what nice things they've done, if they hurt me more afterwards - they are history. For me once it's over, once you betrayed me hurt me - it's history.

[daisychip]

Remembering the good is way easier than trying to forget the bad.

[**Sapphire**]

I remember the good things that people have done for me. I appreciate anything no matter how big or small that people have done for me as well.

[arc]

I always appreciate people who have done something good for me. That makes me happy. No matter it is big/small, important/unimportant.

[pika]

haha, if you ask me now, he may do ten good things for you but end off with one that hurt you most....she will still hate you:p

[daisychip]

Thats kinda what I meant pika...........when s/o hurts me it's hard to get past the bad..........but it's still easier to remember the good than it is to forget the bad. Sometimes I think if it wasn't so easy to remember the good I wouldn't give so manyy chances.