jimbo666
03-19-2007, 02:14 PM
Ok, so after reading someone's post on here I would like to tell a story about me and see what you guys/girls think about it...I may have to come back later to finish cuz I got to go to work in a bit but I’ll start it off for now. Well a few years ago before I joined the army I lived in Utah I was eating lunch with one of my old roommates and a girl he knew worked at subway while we were there. She came over and sat by us...she was flirty with me and it caught me off guard… He introduced me to her and we made each other laugh so it was a great first meeting. She invited me and my friend over to watch a movie at her house that night and I said I’d go. I went and we talked and watched a movie...we hung out several times like that, she had a boyfriend, shortly after she dumped her boyfriend so I thought it was my chance to try. Before I saw her again she got into a bad car wreck and broke her femur in 7 places and was bed ridden for almost a year. I went over to her house to keep her company and be nice cuz I liked her and we talked a lot and we were pretty good friends after a couple months. She would open up to me and tell me everything that she wouldn’t to other people, not even her boyfriends. She is very pretty and sexy… I keep going over there and it almost seemed as though I lived there for a while...the way she would talk to me and look at me and always want me to sit by her so she could hug me and whatever I thought for sure she was going to be mine...anyway, I go over there one day and some guy was there and they were kissing...I was confused cuz she cant go anywhere I didn’t know where or how she met this guy...(also she'd been married twice before) I was really hurt and upset so I left and I didn’t call or go to her house for a month or so...I finally went to her house to see her and she said that guy lived in Texas and she was thinking about moving down there with him...that killed me and I asked her y would she move so far for someone she just met...she said she really liked this guy...so I left her be again for about another month...I was hurt and I was angry at a lot of things from where I lived and I needed to change my life so I joined the army...I stopped by her house the day before I left for basic and told her where I was going and that it was probably the last time she would see me....she broke down and cried.She was mad at me for not telling her and not coming to see her and I told her yeah well u were too busy with your guy friend so I didn’t bother....she looked at me funny and I think she knew what I meant....she could stand at this point....she gave me like a 10 minute long hug and cried saying how much she will miss me and all that and asked me if I would still call her and come see her on leave....I told her no because I’m tired of everyone hurting me around here and she hugged me again and said "yes you will" then I left telling her she was the best friend I’d ever had....so I went to basic and all that and by the time I got to my unit it had been about 8 months since I left home...I was at my unit for another 5 months then I got to go home on leave....I couldn’t resist not going and seeing her...I thought about her everyday in basic and all that and how much I missed her and I how dumb I felt for telling her I wouldn’t talk to her or see her again....so I showed up at her door and was she shocked....she got all teary and gave me a hug and said she missed me so much and was so happy to see me...she could walk now but her leg will always hurt...ok so I went in and we talked and I told her about it all and she told me what she's been up to...I asked her about why she didn’t move to Texas and she said that guy was a liar and a jerk and she met someone else but she was going to break up with him that weekend cuz they just met and she didn’t like him much...I was kind of excited cuz I thought maybe I could ask this time before something happened...I also wanted to ask cuz she would always say things like would ever consider being with a girl who has a kid and is 6 years older than you and I always told her it wouldn’t bother me. We had the same wants in love and relationship and we always talked about it. Ok so we decided we were going to spend the whole weekend together and catch up and just hang out....the next day she met some guy and blew me off for our weekend. I was crushed...at the end of my leave we had another long goodbye and we exchanged numbers and email and all that....she emailed me everyday and called me almost everyday....then I deployed....while I was over there she broke up with that same guy she had met and met another guy who is a jerk and also her current husband....anyway, she met him and he did some bad things to her and she would email me everyday in Afghanistan and I would email her back...she told me so many times that she loved me so much that I was so special and would make any girl so unbelievably happy....she told me she loved me more than any of her boyfriends but never once said she wanted to be with me....so she broke up with that guy (her current husband) for two weeks and went back to the guy before him and got pregnant by him....left him and went back to her husband...this caused a lot of drama if you couldn’t tell....her husband treated her so badly (their not married yet I’m just saying husband for reference) and they broke up a few times...she would email me all about it and I told her y is she being dumb and wasting time on a guy like that....she needed a guy like me and she said there are no guys like me and I said well what about me? She said what about you? I asked her if I was so wonderful and perfect why you don’t like me. she said its complicated and I deserve better...I said tell me why you don’t like me and I told her how I felt...then she tried to say she loves her husband and its not right to talk about all of that so we dropped it...she still emailed me everyday and when I got back from deployment she called and said we cant talk anymore...I started crying and I was mad. She finally agreed to talk to me but we had to put a huge limit on it for her relationship cuz she said she loved me more than him and it wasn’t right....I agreed and I worked very hard for what she wanted and I never once pushed her....after time and her having problems with him like always we started talking more and more...then I went home on leave and she had moved 3 hours away from our town...I took 3 days away from everyone and drove out to see her cuz her bf was working and would be gone the whole week. She had just had her new baby too...we spent all day and almost all night for 3 days together just me and her in his house....she hugged me a lot and she said more things like I wish I had a guy like you and I wish my boyfriend was just like you. She asked me again if I would every consider being with a girl who had 2 kids with 2 daddy's and I said for a very special and wonderful girl, yes I would and she just stared at me. She always asked me for advice and I always gave her my best and she often wishes she would have taken my advice.