Sex change & Dating

[**Sapphire**]

Would you date someone who was once the same sex as you?

[daisychip]

honestly, I just don't think I would be able to. i would actually want to date another woman before dating a man that once was.

[aussiecoffee007]

i dont think i would either, i thikn it would just be too complicated and would raise too mayn issues and i would never feel 100% comfortable...

[~Teej~]

Wow what a question...I guess you can't really answer it until faced with the situation.

[**Sapphire**]

No, I just really couldn't, I know I would feel uncomfortable.

[MagicMonkey]

In my opinion the only thing a man who used to be a woman cannot offer a girlfriend/female lover is a real d*ck. I think a plus to dating a man who used to be a woman would be the fact that he can be understanding and supportive on those days you have a really bad period and cramps or any other female oriented issue. They know how to communicate with you better than a biological male. They can't get you pregnant though. So if you want kids you would have to be open to adoption or artificial insemination.

[lisa843]

I don't have anything against anyone that lives that lifestyle...
but I just don't think there's any way at all I could ever do that...

to each his/her own though...

[MagicMonkey]

Thank you for the asterisk Pink!!! I completely forgot to edit that!!! Sorry :o

I don't have anything against anyone that lives that lifestyle...
but I just don't think there's any way at all I could ever do that...

to each his/her own though...

Well said. I am also one who lives a 'to each his own' life. I have had transgendered men and women ask me out and although they have all been very nice people (except one) I was not interested. Mainly because I am still in love with my ex, but I wasn't sure if I could date an MTF. (male to female)

[FromHolland]

Perhaps if he transformed in a really really good looking girl and I didnt know about it. Wouldnt be able to bear it if knew though. imo people are free to do whatever they want to themselves but I just wouldnt be able to deal with it.

In the dutch big brother series some years ago there was this really hot transsexual that did it with a guy, and when they were done they were lieing next to eachother hugging and kissing. And then she told the guy "I was born as a boy, if you know what I mean". The look on his face was great xD.

[BristolFan]

Nah I wouldn't be able to either..

Doesn't matter how they looked, just that they were.. Just how I feel..

BTW I couldn't care less about what they do.. I don't judge.. Nor will I choose to have no/little contact, or pick friends, on basis' such as this..

But forming a relationship is different..I just wouldn't feel comfortable or able to..

[MyNameIsJack]

never been in this kind of situation (hope so.. hehe)

but probably i'll not feel so confortable with myself