Kind of an awkward situation

[stanemac12]

I don't actually have a girlfriend myself right now. But one of my roommates has a girlfriend that he's very close with. They usually spend a good 4 hours a day together which doesn't include their classes. We all go to the same university. Anyways last week my roommate had to go back home off campus to take care of some family thing that was happening and he's been gone since last Friday.

So anyways, last night we had about 5 or so people in our apartment drinking casually and watching some movies just having some fun. My roommates girlfriend was there as well. The thing is she kept acting very intimate towards me all night. She kept coming over to sit right beside me (really close beside me, even leaning on me at one point). At one time when my other friends were sitting on either side of me she urged me to come sit beside her where there was no one sitting. She also put her hand on my leg and moved it up to my upper thigh. This is not something I've ever seen her do before so I've been thinking about how to deal with it. Obviously I didn't really pursue any of her actions in a way that a friend wouldn't. The reasons I have come up with are:

1) She was drunk
2) She missed her boyfriend
3) She actually likes me

Now its not that I am not really attracted to her. She is a very attractive to me but I know that as long as she is with my roommate anything like that would never cross my mind (and actually hasn't until last night) because my roommate and I are close friends and I wouldn't do anything like that to him. The part that confuses me most about the whole situation is that he and his girlfriend are always so intimate and close - they really have a strong relationship so it really came as a surprise to me to see this happening last night.

Either way I'm kind of puzzled as to what I'm supposed to do now. Should I brush it off as if it never happened and hope it doesn't again? Should I tell my roommate? Anyone that can offer advice I would greatly appreciate it.

Stan

[**Sapphire**]

Welcome to ATLF stanemac12, glad that you joined us here. :)

I would first have a talk with your roommates girlfriend before he comes back. Let her know that the things she was doing didn't may you feel right & really weren't appropriate of what a girlfriend of a friend should be doing. Find out why she was doing those things.

[lauraaaxbaby]

you should tell your friend because she might get scared and tell him something before you even get a chance to explain everything to him. believe me once you tell her you want to talk about it she will run to him before you do

[aussiecoffee007]

yeah i would tell the friend too in case she tells first and the friend thikns you were being dishonest about it.. plus he should know what his girlfriend is up to :X maybe she was just drunk or more likely there are problems below the surface of their relationship, but i would definitely tell your friend.. he deserves to know the truth and you dont want him to find out from anyone else but you.

[MickeyDeanEveryone]

I agree with everyone else. Making sure your friendship with him doesn't go sour is most important, tell him before she does so he hears the complete truth! I know someone who was in this same situation and he kept his mouth shut....she then told his friend that HE was coming on to HER which was not true and really messed things up.
Hope all goes well!
-Mickey

[~Teej~]

Oh dear...too much alcohol can make us do some silly things...I hope that you haven't acted on any of these advances as not to ruin your friendship with your mate.

Also it might be a good idea to inform her what a mistake that was and that can never ever happen again.