Enough negativity!

[Tuxie]

Look. I realize that this is a 'love advice' forum. But as I read through some of the posts last night and early this morning, this thought came to mind. Life is not all 'gloom and doom'. Our lives hafta have SOME brightness in them. :) So.... with that being said, let's share some bright and cheery things that have happened with relationships. Postitive memories....

Mine would hafta be the birth of both my kids. :D I'm very proud of my kids... they never gave me much hassle (some, but not much) and I think they turned out ok. We still remain in constant communication, pretty much... and I make sure they know their Daddy loves them (both verbally and physically). I know it sounds overused at times, but they truly are my 'pride and joy'. The thought of them both brings a smile to my face... and my daughter's laugh and sense of humor (I hear she got it from me) makes me laugh.

That's mine... what's yours?

[EC]

Hmm I don't have kids, but in the past few months when I see kids I have some unexplained feelings that usually put a smile on my face, only happens with baby girls though, I am not much into boys.

Is it fatherhood calling? :eek: :eek:

[mashmac]

Indeed EC, could be the time has come. And men often say they would rather have a girl. You seem to be in a loving elationship, stable enviroment, oz is great for kids so really, no reason why not!

[Tuxie]

Oops.... loving relationship? Did I miss something? Last I heard, there were problems at the homestead... :confused:

[mashmac]

Err - am I wrong here? I thought EC went through a bad patch but it was all fine now? That was my understanding...:embarassed:

[Tuxie]

I just figured you knew EC better than most here... so I just assumed you knew. Like I said, I don't always keep up on everyone here... and I thought I'd missed something. :)

[mashmac]

No, you do cause he joined before me and I think by the time I joined, so he perhaps hasn't spoken about it anymore.

I am sure you've noticed: we post our big issues when we join, we refer back to it, but it becomes a sidebar issue when we are on the forum...

Anyway, I am a bit nuts. Not that that is any excuse for having totally misenterpreted EC's situation.

EC mate, I am really sorry...:behindsofa:

[aussiecoffee007]

my friends in my life have been a huge blessing... i used to go through rough patches but now it seems ive found my soulmate friends, i can tell them everything and trust them and talk about deep things or shallow things if were in the mood :) we can try new things together or do the old and they are awesome

[EC]

You haven't missed anything Tuxguy.

[mashmac]

I answered in another thread... :)

[Tuxie]

:focus: ok... back to telling us your positive memories :)

[EC]

Reading through this thread just make me think of lyrics of one of James Morrison's song:

And I know that it's a wonderful world
But I can't feel it right now
Well I thought that I was doing well
But I just want to cry now
Well I know that it's a wonderful world
From the sky down to the sea
But I can only see it when you're here, here with me

The most beautiful part of this song.

Happy memory, Hmm.. the feeling that never gone away, every single times, when I pick up my wife or see her after a day or work.. seeing her walks towards me gives me this tickling / ticklish feelings in my stomach and I start to smile uncontrollably..

I think this is what they call "Butterflies"? I don't have a name for it. If it is, there are thousands of them in me :rolleyes: Every time. Funny that, it's like the feeling people get on first date I think. I've been having that for about 10 years by now, every time I see her.

[mashmac]

Making love over and over like never before, searching for each other bodies over and over, connecting on all levels, butterflies in my tummy, gazing into each others eyes, holdings hands, just being. It was incredible. Pure magic.
The things he did for me like traveling 500km back and forth in a day just to hold me...more of that..the sea..his eyes.
And having a child out of love, a love child. A miracle.

[aussiecoffee007]

mashmac is officially seconded. though for me, its just thinking about WHEN i do lol

[Penguin_Woman]

I'd like to "third" that. lol Really anytime I'm with my hubby is the best!

[DIANACARL02]

I think my fave memories are of the times me and my hubby have spent just hangin out together.
Not really sexual, altough those are nice too.:eyebrows:
Like the long walks on the beach discussin our future together,
picnics in the park,
movies at the drive in,
Fishin at the local fishin hole,
goin mudd boggin,
walkin around the flea market ( even if we are broke),
The surprize breakfasts,
wakin up early to get the shower warmed up for him,
the feelin i get in my stomach when he gives me that look that makes me melt every time.:smlove2:
etc....etc.....etc....