I dont know

[lauraaaxbaby]

so theres this girl i met in october which was my fiances cousin they hardly saw each other tho. and she went out with his bestfriend so thats how we meet. we got so close!!! like sisters. sleepovers every weekend and all that kind of stuff. then we got into a big fight. which she started telling my fiance all this stuff about me that wasnt true now shes txtin me n calling me non stop. i have ignored her for about a month already. she stopped txting me. and now she txted me yest. idk what to do i really dont want to talk to her because i was so hurt by what she did like why would she. she said she was just ****** off. but still we were so closeeee .. so now what? i havnt spoke to her in a month and she texted me yest. she i tell her i dont want to talk to her or what? last time we spoke was when we were yelling at each other and then i screamed and just hungup and never spoke again?

last october was when i met her**

[**Sapphire**]

Well Laura if you really don't want to talk to her anymore, then I wouldn't contact her back. If she calls you or texts, don't respond.

Although, if you would like to at least see what she wants you could respond back. If she wants to try to get the friendship back & you don't want to then you could let her know it's not going to happen after the argument.

If you think after talking to her that you might want to try again having her as a friend, then start over, but slowly & see where things go.

It's really all in how YOU feel here, she hurt you & so it's all up to you on what you would like to do now that she's contacting you again.

[~Teej~]

Hi Laura

I do not know what was said in the conversation so It's hard to comment.

Is it possible that she may have said something in the heat of the moment, that she didn't mean and that she is really sorry and is trying to ring you to apologize.

I think you should at least hear what she has to say. If you don't want to see her after that then let her know.

[lauraaaxbaby]

put it this way she was trying to break us up. what she said no real friend would say even if they got into the biggest fight with you

the bad thing about me is i hold grudges foreverrrr lol not a good thing

[**Sapphire**]

Well Laura if she was trying to break you guys up & she was saying bad things about you, I would say you have every right to hold a grudge.

Well, then you just may have to think about if you even want to talk to her casually.

It's been my experience if a friend backstabs me, I don't take them back. The times I gave them a second chance, just set me up for them to do it again or something else bad to hurt me. So, it's up to you hun if you want to contact her.

ME...I wouldn't bother.

[lauraaaxbaby]

i never give second chances but i was just thinking like whats goin on in her head callig me and texting me. itll feel weird if i see her in person . but i'd probably just walk away

[~Teej~]

Answer the next call, tell her to stop bothering you that your are not interested..that way she should leave you alone.