Notice everyone except the one beside you?

[pika]

Have you have this feeling before that you are always searching high and low for the one in your life but then this person may just be by your side all these while???

I don't know since when, i discover i have this friend of mine which we know for 7 years..Its a long friendship and initially when we were studying, i merely take her as a friend(at that time, i enjoyed being single...carefree life style)

However, recently i just discover out of the blue(something strike me ) that during my down periods, and my happy times, i always shared with her. Its like we are so comfortable with each other companionship.

Well its just a thought that sometimes, not sure if it happens to others, but we often tend to group the people we know...

Well of course i understand that there are some people which we often started out with the motive of trying to be in a relationship with them...and others just classify them under the group of normal friends....and as time goes by, its rather difficult or fearing the risk of trying to move into another relationship with this friend....

Hopefully, someone will know what i m trying to express

[mashmac]

I think I do. But I also seem to remember that you recently got out of a disappointing sentimental scenario so just be careful that you aren't confused about how you feel and view a very good and close friendship that gives you a lot of comfort for something more. Because we all need comfort after disappointment.

Does it make sense? Anyway, nothing is burning so just enjoy
each other's company without complicating things. And time will tell if it's more than just a friendship.

Enjoy!

[pika]

Yes mashmac, i do understand alot of things from that last disappointment and i think its really an experience.

I am not rushing things as well. Its just a thought....and yes, indeed i should take a step backwards to notice the people around me.

Not only in love relationships but also friendship. I have actually came to understand alot of my friends which i did not in the past.

The last round that this came to me was when my dad passed away 5 years back. Those friends which i thought supposingly was my best friend did not make time to attend the wake, where those i rarely spoke to and dont really mix with came instead. The comfort and encouragement they gave me make me release that i should not just selfish live in my own childish perception. Think history sometimes have to repeat itself to remind one how lucky they are.:p

[pika]

There is something which i've learned as well...

Nothing come stronger than your family, not even friends. There is a limit to what a friend can do for you, even the closest friend.

I was terribly upset once where i misplace my trust in a friend supposingly i acknowledge to be my best friend.....

i was very disappointed at how he treated me back then...guess im still very young then..