just curious

[jimbo666]

just curious but how old is tuxguy, tuxygal, EC, and mashmac? your the only one who seem to be active and have answered my questions so i was just wondering...also how many relationships have you been in? serious? short term? etc...

[Tuxgal]

Older than you. lol So please try not to say about how you don't want to wait until your "that old" if you could. It could be offense to some. For the record I'm 30. As for how many relationships? Hmm.. I'm not real sure. Serious relationships? Only a handful. Maybe 4 or so.

[mashmac]

Older than you too! I am 37 - I am married. With kids. Serious relationship - two or perhaps three. Short term...a few. Played the field for a while as they say without wanting to "seriously" commit.

[jimbo666]

i don't understand playing the field without wanting to commit? i often see people like that but i don't get it...i can't see myself just dating or being with someone casually just cuz...if i'm gonna be with someone its to be with them all the way...sorry i just dont really understand the playing the field thing...whats the point? also it may not be what i'm after but i would at least like that as well...anything is better than nothing.

[mashmac]

Playing the field is testing the waters. It might even follow a recent break-up so you are careful. Love comes with pain. Just in your case, wanting love so much causes you pain. So you just become more careful once you've been hit with pain a few times. It is a serious commitment to say to someone you love them.
It takes time to be sure of that love. Or perhaps that is just how I see it having
been around 15 years more than you. :)