hoping this site will help me

[jimbo666]

hi! i'm glad someone on yahoo answers referred me to here. well i'm 22 and in the army and i've had unbelievable bad luck with the girls and me or all of my female friends cant seem to figure out why...anyway, i know i can help people here as well and i'm really hoping some of my answers can be answered here...

[Tuxgal]

Hi there. :) Welcome to the Forum. Glad you could join us. Hope we can help you out. I hope you stick around

[mashmac]

Hello an welcome to the forum. All of us here keep on coming back and as we are not too many it's kind of intimate. I hope you will enjoy it too. It has helped me loads. So knock yourself out and ask whatever you want!

[Tuxie]

Hey there Jimbo! Glad to have you here at ATLF! :) We're here to listen and hopefully we can share some of our life experiences... through these, maybe we can help. I hope to see you around and active. :D

[EC]

Mashmac is right, when she first got here she was fairly upset and broken, we did all we could to patch her up and now she's around helping others :)

Jimbo, I have a feeling that if you stop worrying about it and just enjoy your life and do things you like to do, go socialize to make friends not specifically meet someone, it will happen before you know it.

[mashmac]

I was indeed. Never thought being here would help me so much. Still very fragile but nothing like when I first randomly landed here. Back on my feet and looking ahead! It's great.

[jimbo666]

maybe your right...maybe i do just need to enjoy life more but i dont know how...i would like to then i would be happier...its more of the thought "knowing" that i have a short time to do anything before i'll get another chance ya know...i dunno about all of you but waiting until i'm 25 before i even start dating in my life is a horrible thought to me...dating numerous people or just having one special someone is suppose to be in your younger years...such as 15-21...i know people date at all ages but thats when things are the easiest and supposedly best...i missed out on so much already it just kills me to miss out on more and more....25 yrs and not one single girl...how am i not suppose to wonder if my whole life will end that way?

[mashmac]

You haven't missed out on anything Jimbo. Cause from everything you said - not at one point did you say there was someone you thought was special and you really, really liked.
Trust me on this one - I am 37, you do have time. Hey - I still think I am young!

Life is strange that way. We can't force or control those things. They come to us. And again - it doesn't sound as if you have met anyone you liked - you tried many times but that someone that triggered something special in you just hasn't happened yet. It will cause that's just the way it is for all of us.

[jimbo666]

maybe but god i dont wanna wait that long...my life has been rough from day one and being with someone would make everything go away...its the only way i would be happy...no i have thought there were several very special girls and i was so crazy about...each one of them shattered my heart in different ways:( ...anyway...thats another topic...