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potatoes
02-08-2007, 01:41 AM
just wondering, if someone just got out of a relationship and she has:

1.No friends at all (zero zero zero zero)
2.Her colleagues are all married and are 20yrs her senior - noone to introduce her or spend time with her...
3.She isn't in any clubs/organizations at all...so not meeting anyone
4.She is 30 and dissapointed that she didn't get to marry her ex whom she loved.

How does one move-on and meet someone new? or find alternatives?

Tuxgal
02-08-2007, 12:55 PM
Hi, potatoes. Well...I'm 30 and I don't have many friends myself. My advice would be to start there, start by trying to make new friends of both genders. Join an event or get a hobby of some sort. Some of those guy friends might become more or some female friends might know someone. :)

mashmac
02-08-2007, 08:48 PM
I agree with Taxgal: go and do something you've been wanting to do for a while. Gym for example?
your colleagues might be older but still fun to be with. They can make you
laugh and just relax. Get out there, even for a coffee by yourself and watch the people walking past. And there must be someone around you, in your life that you like to spend time with?
And for the broken heart - that takes a while.

EC
02-18-2007, 08:57 AM
Kind of understand what you're talking about.

Not a single person at my work is single, they are either married, in relationships or have kids. Everyone goes straight home after work and are hardly available to socialize outside work.

Though we have an arrangements to do something together outside work, but it's only once every few months.