ceejj03
02-02-2007, 07:58 PM
Whats up guys.. me and this girl have been together for 7 years and there hasn't been any trust issues until now. Basically, we've been fine, and she wants to get on the volunteer police unit. Well a guy that I have bad blood with has been running into her every now and then. She told me that he could give her an application, and she could give it back to him. Well recently they have been text messaging each other back and forth I guess to set up a time when he could come give it to her and when she could bring it back to him. Well she deletes text messages from him as well as his calls. She doesn't want me texting him because she thinks I will "ruin her chances" by saying something. She doesn't want me there when he will come pick up the application either. I've talked to both her and him and they both deny anything and get mad and say there's nothing there.
Well, it's really getting to me. I can't eat, sleep, or even think about anything else, a million questions through my head. Today she said she would be done class by 2 pm, and I got called her at 3. I said want me to come over, and she said no, I have to run out. I said well I'll just come over, and she said no, I will be over the later.
Well, a few minutes later she told me she was going to meet him downtown to give him the application. I asked her if I could come and she said "no."
I'm worried, and paranoid. Do I end this or what? I've tried talking to her over and over about it and nothing is being solved. She still denies it but yet still deletes the text and won't let me go with her to meet him.
She said after she gives him the application that she has no other reason to talk to him. She and he both say there is nothing there. I tried to end it with her a few times, and I was thinking, if she did like him, she would of agreed and then started to date him, right?
I don't know what to believe. Basically I am tired of waiting, the longer it goes, the worse I feel. I don't know when she'll be texting him again, as she deletes it anyway. I don't know when she'll talk to him over the phone again, she'll delete it and won't tell me. Basically, I am getting answers but not the ones that are adding up.
Well, it's really getting to me. I can't eat, sleep, or even think about anything else, a million questions through my head. Today she said she would be done class by 2 pm, and I got called her at 3. I said want me to come over, and she said no, I have to run out. I said well I'll just come over, and she said no, I will be over the later.
Well, a few minutes later she told me she was going to meet him downtown to give him the application. I asked her if I could come and she said "no."
I'm worried, and paranoid. Do I end this or what? I've tried talking to her over and over about it and nothing is being solved. She still denies it but yet still deletes the text and won't let me go with her to meet him.
She said after she gives him the application that she has no other reason to talk to him. She and he both say there is nothing there. I tried to end it with her a few times, and I was thinking, if she did like him, she would of agreed and then started to date him, right?
I don't know what to believe. Basically I am tired of waiting, the longer it goes, the worse I feel. I don't know when she'll be texting him again, as she deletes it anyway. I don't know when she'll talk to him over the phone again, she'll delete it and won't tell me. Basically, I am getting answers but not the ones that are adding up.