ukph
07-13-2008, 02:32 PM
Hi Guys,
Need some advice on whether to take the plunge, bit of a long one I'm afraid sorry but really need advice.
OK the situation is that me and this girl have known each other for about 3 years. She was my boss at work, after a year she got a promotion and suggested I go for a promotion with her to a new site. We moved to the new area and lived together for another year and got really close but nothing happened as she was kinda off and on with this moron.
She moved to another town (for another promotion) and moved back in with this guy even though he had messed her around a few times. She then got pregnant and he has now messed her arround again and they have split up for good now.
We dont see each other as much because of where we live but we talk every day, sometimes for hours at a time.
I've liked her for a while but haven't said anything to her. The last couple of weeks she have come over a couple of times and we seem to be closer than usual.
When we are sitting on the sofa with some of our mates she kinda cuddles up and holds and strokes my hands and arms. The other day her and her Ex had a big fight, as they are still having to live together until the house lease runs out, and she came and stayed for a couple of nights. I offered to sleep on the sofa but she said just to share the bed. When I got into bed she cuddled up and was stroking my arms again. Again nothing else happened just kinda held her all night.
She says she misses me when we talk and we text a lot aswell. After she was down for the day we were texting and I said she should move back my way. Her answer was that 'Its not that easy, I love being near to you, yesterday was cool I had a really chilled out day'. I asked her wot she meant and she kinda shrugged it off and said it was interesting coz she didnt think I paid that much attention. When I asked why it was interesting she said 'I do miss you, you know that I wish we could see each other more and the time we spend together is lush'.
Am I reading more than I should into this? The situation is really complicated as I can't lose her as a friend but I dont want to miss the chance of something else and then the added complication of her Ex and being pregnant doesn't make the timing very good.
What do you all think?
Any advice appreciated.
PH
Need some advice on whether to take the plunge, bit of a long one I'm afraid sorry but really need advice.
OK the situation is that me and this girl have known each other for about 3 years. She was my boss at work, after a year she got a promotion and suggested I go for a promotion with her to a new site. We moved to the new area and lived together for another year and got really close but nothing happened as she was kinda off and on with this moron.
She moved to another town (for another promotion) and moved back in with this guy even though he had messed her around a few times. She then got pregnant and he has now messed her arround again and they have split up for good now.
We dont see each other as much because of where we live but we talk every day, sometimes for hours at a time.
I've liked her for a while but haven't said anything to her. The last couple of weeks she have come over a couple of times and we seem to be closer than usual.
When we are sitting on the sofa with some of our mates she kinda cuddles up and holds and strokes my hands and arms. The other day her and her Ex had a big fight, as they are still having to live together until the house lease runs out, and she came and stayed for a couple of nights. I offered to sleep on the sofa but she said just to share the bed. When I got into bed she cuddled up and was stroking my arms again. Again nothing else happened just kinda held her all night.
She says she misses me when we talk and we text a lot aswell. After she was down for the day we were texting and I said she should move back my way. Her answer was that 'Its not that easy, I love being near to you, yesterday was cool I had a really chilled out day'. I asked her wot she meant and she kinda shrugged it off and said it was interesting coz she didnt think I paid that much attention. When I asked why it was interesting she said 'I do miss you, you know that I wish we could see each other more and the time we spend together is lush'.
Am I reading more than I should into this? The situation is really complicated as I can't lose her as a friend but I dont want to miss the chance of something else and then the added complication of her Ex and being pregnant doesn't make the timing very good.
What do you all think?
Any advice appreciated.
PH