kaydee
01-15-2007, 01:15 AM
Well, I did it.
I called an old friend, out of the blue, and asked him if he wanted to have dinner with me. I had a big, high school crush on him years ago and I thought it would be a nice step towards getting over my ex.
Dinner went really well. We ended up going shopping afterward, turning an hour date into a four hour date. We had a blast.
At the end of the night I gave him a big hug and a kiss on the cheek, and asked him if he would go to my performance on Satuday. He did, but while there, he met up with some of his old friends and didn't end up talking to me until right before he left.
He was being very flirtatious with me when I did talk to him, and I could've sworn I was getting "I'm really into you" vibes from him.
So I got home, unloaded my things, and checked my cellphone. He had texted me to say he was really sorry about not spending as much time with me, but the next time he is in town, he'd promise to make it up to me (he currently goes to a school that's about 2 1/2 hours away.) I was so happy. So I texted him today to say I wasn't mad, that I understood that he wanted to hang out with his buddies, and that I was a little confused because I was getting mixed signals from him. He said he really loved spending time with me and valued me as one of his closest friends. He said he couldn't wait to come home and see me again.
Half of my brain is telling me "HE'S SOO CUTE!! AND HE'S SOOO INTO YOU!!!!"
However, the other half is saying "He only sees you as a friend."
What do you think?
Even if he does only see me as a friend RIGHT NOW, I still think I'll spend as much time with him as possible and see where it goes. :)
I called an old friend, out of the blue, and asked him if he wanted to have dinner with me. I had a big, high school crush on him years ago and I thought it would be a nice step towards getting over my ex.
Dinner went really well. We ended up going shopping afterward, turning an hour date into a four hour date. We had a blast.
At the end of the night I gave him a big hug and a kiss on the cheek, and asked him if he would go to my performance on Satuday. He did, but while there, he met up with some of his old friends and didn't end up talking to me until right before he left.
He was being very flirtatious with me when I did talk to him, and I could've sworn I was getting "I'm really into you" vibes from him.
So I got home, unloaded my things, and checked my cellphone. He had texted me to say he was really sorry about not spending as much time with me, but the next time he is in town, he'd promise to make it up to me (he currently goes to a school that's about 2 1/2 hours away.) I was so happy. So I texted him today to say I wasn't mad, that I understood that he wanted to hang out with his buddies, and that I was a little confused because I was getting mixed signals from him. He said he really loved spending time with me and valued me as one of his closest friends. He said he couldn't wait to come home and see me again.
Half of my brain is telling me "HE'S SOO CUTE!! AND HE'S SOOO INTO YOU!!!!"
However, the other half is saying "He only sees you as a friend."
What do you think?
Even if he does only see me as a friend RIGHT NOW, I still think I'll spend as much time with him as possible and see where it goes. :)