Dating really difficult these days?

[Qat]

Does anyone else find dating really difficult?

[~Teej~]

Yes I do..I don't seem to meet people very often as i will never go to a bar/club to meet people for a date as I am always just there to meet up and go out with my friends.
So I don't really know how to meet people.
The few people I have liked recently nothing came of it so it also puts a downer on dating.
I am quite happy being by myself though, I have enough friends to keep me company

[**Sapphire**]

Yeah I think it's pretty hard to date these days too.

Back when I was single, I didn't do the find a date at a bar or club. So, I found it hard to meet up with a guy, it was like, OK where do I try to find "Mr. Right"? It depressed me for awhile, but then I realized that it's ok if I'm single, I will meet someone when it's the right time. I did meet that someone & now I'm pretty happy. It did take me a long time though.

[aussiecoffee007]

yes! it seems like guys are just always out for somethign i dont want to give... then i feel like i am prude, or have too high of expectations, but... i dont want to settle. it puts me in a really hard place in my dating life! :(

[**Sapphire**]

yes! it seems like guys are just always out for somethign i dont want to give... then i feel like i am prude, or have too high of expectations, but... i dont want to settle. it puts me in a really hard place in my dating life! :(


Well Aussie hun, if you aren't ready for certain intimate aspects in a relationship or while dating & the guy you are with isn't respectful of that then, walk on hun. Even casually dating as well, you know that guy would not be good relationship material if he possibly pushes you or disrepects you in any way. There are guys out there that will wait. :)