Challenges in relationships

[EC]

I would like to know what are challenges in relationships, to both men and women. This one simple word is often spoken, asked for, but seems as if nobody really understands how to give their other halves the challenges they are longing for.

This 'challenge' has become one of the most important things that makes and breaks so many relationships.

[Tuxie]

Hiya EC. :)

When I read the first line of your post, I thought you wanted to know our input on issues (or challenges) facing relationships. But when I read on... now I'm not so sure.

If you mean issues that crop up between couples, the main thing I see is lack of trust.

Hope this is what you're looking for. If not, let me know... and I'll try to answer more completely. ;)

[EC]

No, what I meant is challenges, not issues, many women say to their husbands "I don't feel challenged in this relationship anymore, I need challenges"

[Tuxie]

Oh, I see.

Heh... some people complain about too many challenges in life. It would seem odd that someone would want more. Mebbe by challenges you mean... a reason to stay around like, feeling needed... wanted... loved. Over my experiences in relationships, I've found that couples tend to fall into complacency. A 'challenge' in a relationship would be just keeping the 'spark'... the 'fire' alive.

[smackie9]

Maybe not just romantically but general boredom in day to day life as well. A need for new friends and activities....more stimulation, a change of scenery.